If i'm in the mood I just go with the flow
I listen to Peter Cetera. Gotta feel that glory of love before wanking like a wildebeest.
Wake up, make coffee, get into the shower, Wednesday lunch, turn on the tv, visit Lush, turn off the TV, pour a glass of wine, crawl into bed to go to sleep. I think a better question would be what haven't I used as a ritual.
I do whatever Angryish says
I like to read a sexy story before I get started.
Most of the time I just slide down my panties and get a quick release. When I want to make it more of an event I'll completely strip down, grab some oil, and might even find a nice banana.