There is a thread on the the '”ask guys'” forum, the subject of which has to do with what female body style guys like. Anyway, true to their independent nature, the woman of Lush muscled their way in and changed the subject, which brings me to this moment in time.
Anyway, the topic morphed into a semi-serious discussion of what kind of male body type, size and personality women prefer.
If I were a woman, unless I was looking for casual sex or a fwb I wouldn't consider any guy who didn't first have some level of accomplishment or potential to make his way in life. When I hear a woman say that what a guy makes doesn't matter I say there is a woman with low standards.
I wonder what qualities the women of Lush would want in a man before they would consider him. I am saying that even if size and looks are very important do they trump everything else. What is it you want when looks and personality are not enough.
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What is it you want when looks and personality are not enough.
Intelligence,confidence,accomplishment,humor. Many more. It's the whole package.And I don't mean what's between his legs.
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For me (I'm the one who started that other thread btw) ... for a guy besides looks and "personality" haha it's about his sense of humor, his pride in himself, his self-confidence, his ambition, his drive, and his passion. I'm not looking for a guy who's loaded, but I'm not going to handle financial instability either. I want someone who works hard for what they have and then is proud of themselves for it.
Really the biggest question is: can he put up with ME? lol.
Really the biggest question is: can he put up with ME? lol.
Right there. Oh yeah baby. Right there.
Internet Sensation
When it comes down to it, he needs to know how to handle me.
He needs interests and things he burn for so he can tell me all about them so I can sit with big curious eyes. listening to him and dreaming away.
now a million or two wouldn't hurt, aslong as it hasnt gone to his head.
He needs interests and things he burn for so he can tell me all about them so I can sit with big curious eyes. listening to him and dreaming away.
now a million or two wouldn't hurt, aslong as it hasnt gone to his head.
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No personality=no interest whatsoever. He could be a billionaire with Brad Pitt's body, and he still wouldn't get my attention.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
Alpha Blonde
Pretty much it all comes down to a certain vibe and chemistry.
I've never been one to go for the experienced power-figure guy or the wealthy worldly type. I like someone on my level - kind of like a team-mate through life, similar age bracket, a best friend with kinky benefits, and where there's a shared sense of humour and sarcasm and sense of adventure. There's just that attraction to them - to their spirit and attitude. It's hard to define, but you know it when you see it.
Money is great theoretically but to be honest - the wealthy men I know are typically overly complicated, jaded assholes. And I don't particularly like those social circles either - there's way too much pressure.
I've never been one to go for the experienced power-figure guy or the wealthy worldly type. I like someone on my level - kind of like a team-mate through life, similar age bracket, a best friend with kinky benefits, and where there's a shared sense of humour and sarcasm and sense of adventure. There's just that attraction to them - to their spirit and attitude. It's hard to define, but you know it when you see it.
Money is great theoretically but to be honest - the wealthy men I know are typically overly complicated, jaded assholes. And I don't particularly like those social circles either - there's way too much pressure.
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if his looks and personality are lacking then its either a one-night stand if I was desperate or more likely good bye!
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humor..it is the ultimate sign of a smart man