well, if they do get me into a bed, I'd expect them to at least be a little talented or know what they are doing, it should be fun and carefree, personally I don't like silent guys and if I'm doing something you don't like tell me, I expect foreplay always and a little dirty as well. I hope that helped!
and position: depends on how the night goes.
love making shud b accompanied with romance,intense emotions and tenderness...
I EXPECT you to learn how to spell
I'm not a girl, but I would advise you not to talk dirty... or talk at all... just grunt and moan, that's all.
Though the phrasing of your question is like nails on a chalk board it is still a question and should be addressed. Each woman is different, therefore, their needs, wants, and desires are different. Some things go without saying, a woman wants someone who's enthusiastic about being with them. Someone who will worship them and their bodies. Embrace their flaws.
My suggestion for a first time encounter is that you stick to the basics. Figure out who is the dominant and let them be on top. Go with the flow from there. Wait until trust has been built and discussions have been had before getting to riske' unless she indicates otherwise.
There are threads on this site (no I won't do your homework for you) that tell you what positions we like and how to engage us.
Given the choice of Chorizo or Salami I would always choose Chorizo.
Sorry, what was the question?