Quote by Dangerous_Intentions
Vanilla Sex...
As one post noted its different things to different people. I define it as a man or women that has never really been comfortable with their own sexuality. For that reason, they are timid... not comfortable in their own skin...like the lights off......have never experienced the joy of oral....kissed passionately.. or felt intense when lying skin to skin.
If your not comfortable in your skin, then it becomes vanilla when its a on top position only. Its vanilla when you overthink of how you will look or sound during sex. Its vanilla, when you have never cum, but fail to realize its mainly due to you being uptight.
Vanilla to me is the lack of passion.... creativity....not understanding your body... and or what you like and don't like..
Vanilla is sex that's expected.....boring.... quick...one sided...planned.... and predictable.
This is perfect I don't think anyone has explained it better
