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What does it feel like to have a cock in a dry pussy?

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CunningLinguist143
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I apologize if this has been asked before. I mean the word "feel" in my question in many ways: emotionally, physically, etc.

Lets paint two scenarios. The first one sex is just starting and you're mentally not turned on yet. The second one you're in the mood but your pussy has yet to follow. A cock slips into you while dry. Your reaction?

Also what are your reactions after the moment? Do you keep trying? Do you go for the lub?

I ask more for widening-my-perspective and writing-research purposes; not really to get turned on, for immediate needs I have porn for that.


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Dani
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Uncomfortable, painful.

Of the two scenarios, I don't engage in sex unless I'm there mentally already unless it's abrupt (like angry sex).

As far as the other, pain or discomfort is an instant turnoff for me. So sex just doesn't happen at all or happens much later.

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When you're older - dry and turned on just happens sometimes. Why stop having sex just because? Saliva, a vigorous finger fuck (does wonders), lube - whatever you need to get wet and get fucked. Your body's natural wetness will follow along soon enough.

And at least in regard to men who are sized like my husband: dry isn't even possible. Too much skin friction.
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Never had a dry pussy lol
Rubz
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If I'm not mentally ready for it, then we just don't start yet, got to be up for it.

Sometimes the willing is there but the body hasn't quite caught up, in which case we opt for, 1. I give him a blow job - usually works. 2. He goes down on me...always works!! 3. Watch a bit of porn/lush stories and if all else fails, grab the lube. It's too painful without.

Though to be fair, it rarely gets to the needing lube stage lol.

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CunningLinguist143
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Thank you everyone for the information and perspectives - I appreciate it.

Quote by Dani
Uncomfortable, painful.
Of the two scenarios, I don't engage in sex unless I'm there mentally already unless it's abrupt (like angry sex).

As far as the other, pain or discomfort is an instant turnoff for me. So sex just doesn't happen at all or happens much later.


Interesting so you need all the dominoes in place.


Quote by Metilda
When you're older - dry and turned on just happens sometimes. Why stop having sex just because? Saliva, a vigorous finger fuck (does wonders), lube - whatever you need to get wet and get fucked. Your body's natural wetness will follow along soon enough.

And at least in regard to men who are sized like my husband: dry isn't even possible. Too much skin friction.


Mind and body aren't always synchronized indeed; thankfully we have human creativity.


Quote by pink_pussy
Never had a dry pussy lol


Oh you. Now I know my first short story. The Woman Whose Pussy Never Went Dry: A Gift or a Curse?


Quote by Rubz
If I'm not mentally ready for it, then we just don't start yet, got to be up for it.

Sometimes the willing is there but the body hasn't quite caught up, in which case we opt for, 1. I give him a blow job - usually works. 2. He goes down on me...always works!! 3. Watch a bit of porn/lush stories and if all else fails, grab the lube. It's too painful without.

Though to be fair, it rarely gets to the needing lube stage lol.

Rubz, xx


I see foreplay equals more play for more than one person.


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Bloody uncomfortable
anonymous1526
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Well as you could imagine... It feels dry.
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Quote by CunningLinguist143
I apologize if this has been asked before. I mean the word "feel" in my question in many ways: emotionally, physically, etc.

Lets paint two scenarios. The first one sex is just starting and you're mentally not turned on yet. The second one you're in the mood but your pussy has yet to follow. A cock slips into you while dry. Your reaction?

Also what are your reactions after the moment? Do you keep trying? Do you go for the lub?

I ask more for widening-my-perspective and writing-research purposes; not really to get turned on, for immediate needs I have porn for that.



A cock is not going to "slip" in anywhere if she is dry.
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nor will it "slip" anywhere if he is dry
BiMarriedMomNY
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Quote by JacquieJ
Bloody uncomfortable


Couldn't have said it better myself
Although if I am with someone and we are at that point of 'insertion' I very much doubt I am dry
ChuckEPoo
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Actually as a guy, a dry pussy doesn't feel any better fore me than for her. Sex is a team activity and there is more than my needs to consider. So if she is dry she is either not into it and I should not go any further of she is older mad the natural secretions are not happening and I should not go any further, or I have not spent enough time in foreplay and should not go further. Hmmm common theme here?
Beffer
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OK guys... picture a proctological exam with an unlubricated rubber glove! :-)
jollyjack
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Imagine sand-paper in the bottom of a budgies cage......
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Ariel21
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Who does this?? What guy wants to feel a dry vagina???? I have not once ever heard a man beg me for my tight, dry, pussy. And if shes dry shes not turned on. Work harder. It would hurt. Like a really bad turn on a slip and slide that was never hosed down.
Milik_the_Red
Internet Philosopher
If she's not feeling it, then I haven't done the things I need to do to arouse her. I love giving a woman tongue time, so i don't see this problem if she wants sex.

If she isn't in the mood, then she isn't in the mood. Trying to do it when she is ready seems... Forced to me.
Milik_the_Red
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
OK guys... picture a proctological exam with an unlubricated rubber glove! :-)



Anal sex without lube.

This is a big reason so many women only try it once. Sex should be wet. Simple as that
Dirty_D
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I might be the odd one out, but if we are going for a quickie, it can sorta be fun. I get very wet extremely easily, so for me to have dry sex means my partner just came up on me and decided to fuck me. (and within a stroke, Im already getting wet, so we arent talking a lot of fucking here) the excitement isnt in the dryness(its awkward, and nothing slides right) but in the urgency.
CunningLinguist143
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Quote by JacquieJ
Bloody uncomfortable


Well said.

Quote by anonymous1526
Well as you could imagine... It feels dry.


Fair enough.

Quote by trinket

A cock is not going to "slip" in anywhere if she is dry.


Quote by SweetKing126
nor will it "slip" anywhere if he is dry


Damn, writers and authors so literal.

Quote by BiMarriedMomNY

Couldn't have said it better myself
Although if I am with someone and we are at that point of 'insertion' I very much doubt I am dry


Seems there's some agreement.

Quote by ChuckEPoo
Actually as a guy, a dry pussy doesn't feel any better fore me than for her. Sex is a team activity and there is more than my needs to consider. So if she is dry she is either not into it and I should not go any further of she is older mad the natural secretions are not happening and I should not go any further, or I have not spent enough time in foreplay and should not go further. Hmmm common theme here?


A slip 'n slide is more fun.

Quote by BethanyFrasier
OK guys... picture a proctological exam with an unlubricated rubber glove! :-)


But I'm still trying to forget the one with the lubricated glove!

Quote by jollyjack
Imagine sand-paper in the bottom of a budgies cage......


The sandpaper would explain that "rash" I have.

Quote by Ariel21
Who does this?? What guy wants to feel a dry vagina???? I have not once ever heard a man beg me for my tight, dry, pussy. And if shes dry shes not turned on. Work harder. It would hurt. Like a really bad turn on a slip and slide that was never hosed down.


Your first question cracked me up. I'm tempted to agree with you, I can't say I'm a dry vagina guy myself but I can't speak for the whole male sex. I think "If she's dry she's not turned on. Worker harder." needs to be made into a t-shirt.

Quote by Milik_Redman
If she's not feeling it, then I haven't done the things I need to do to arouse her. I love giving a woman tongue time, so i don't see this problem if she wants sex.

If she isn't in the mood, then she isn't in the mood. Trying to do it when she is ready seems... Forced to me.


I suppose you're right about not being in the mood part. I was thinking more along the lines of she's mentally not horny atm but still open to sex.

Quote by Milik_Redman

Anal sex without lube.

This is a big reason so many women only try it once. Sex should be wet. Simple as that


I agree with you 100%. It's amazing what lots of lub, rubbing and teasing, and fingering could have done prior to shoving it in.

Quote by Dirty_D
I might be the odd one out, but if we are going for a quickie, it can sorta be fun. I get very wet extremely easily, so for me to have dry sex means my partner just came up on me and decided to fuck me. (and within a stroke, Im already getting wet, so we arent talking a lot of fucking here) the excitement isnt in the dryness(its awkward, and nothing slides right) but in the urgency.


Thank you for the unique and interesting perspective.


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cherrycola703
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it's painful.
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Nikki703
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Quote by Dirty_D
I get very wet extremely easily, so for me to have dry sex means my partner just came up on me and decided to fuck me. (and within a stroke, Im already getting wet, so we arent talking a lot of fucking here)


I am like this also, I get wet very easily so as soon as he even tries to enter me I will be juicing up. But unfortunately I am approaching the age where this can change rather suddenly(praying I have a lot of "Wet" years left).

I really cant remember a time where a guy tried to fuck me "By Surprise" and very rarely is my pussy totally dry anyway. But I assume it would hurt if it did happen.

For those who have been fucked when they were very dry, does it hurt as much as say getting anally penetrated (cock or toy) without lube? JI have experienced that. Just curious.
Twofish1way
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Wouldn't know...I'm always wet.
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sex is a 2 way street, the quality is split 50% in other words if the boy does his bit then no way would be dry. if it hurts iits not a turn on, i play with my bf sometimes a few reluctant scenes but he knows what gets my juices flowing and only then will he penetrate me. besides i get very wet very easily, now let me just check mmmmm oh yea xxx