What do you think about "nice guys"?

Quote by SweetPenny
I've actually never had the desire to tame a bad boy. It hardly seems like a worthwhile endeavor.

I wouldn't mind someone taming me though....

Quote by WHR43
Nice Guy-Alpha Male is that not what we all really want.

To me he has confidence, abilities that are marketable and is willing to use those marketable skills. Will protect you and your children from the dangers of the world, even when you know that you are completly capable of protecting yourself. The man that does not run when times are tough and sticks with you until the issue can be resolved.

The man that respects your thoughts and positions, even when they are 180 degrees from his. The man accepts you as you are and does not try to change you into his perfect woman. Kids we all have flaws and the partner that accepts them along with your blessings is a blessing. The man that you know will always be there when you need him today, next month and next year. He will offer you support even if you have split up.

Having said that it DOES NOT mean he must be boring in the bedroom or where ever the need should arrive, does not restrict your needs to be with others and can find avenues of sexual expression that is not in your Kink Primer.

This is my Alpha Man, and I hope you find yours also.

Yes I knew I would never be the wife and mom that most desire to be with my history. But when my Alpha Man came along he did not care what I had done in the past and had little concern of the sexual adventure I may embark on in the future. He has always respected me and has never tried to change me. Certainly he has all the same previleges.

Don't we all want an Alpha Man?

An Alpha Man can be just as Macho as any Bad Boy!!


I know some of you know my story, but maybe some of you don't.[color=red]

Quote by MMonroe
There is such a thing as being too nice.

I have a friend at uni who as a crush at me, everybody knows it. Thing is, he'll suck up to me to get me to like him, agree with what i say, says he has the exact same opinions as me even if he doesnt, just to stay in my good books. He irritates the hell out of me sometimes. Yes i want a kind gentleman who will open doors for me etc but also someone who has theyre own opinions and has the balls to contradict me!!

Quote by roccotool

What about that guy that doesn't have the tats and the long greasy hair? What about the man that dresses well, gives that sly grin, makes the cocky/funny comments, and leaves you wanting to know more (air of mystery, but from a CLEAN GUY)? No, he won't laugh at all your jokes; he'll make fun of some of them, creating MORE attraction for you. Oh, he's his own person alright. He doesn't need your approval because you know he'll just go to that blonde over there and talk to her, getting her interest after a courteous "good night" to you. Politeness and chivalry have nothing to do with being "needy" or "submissive" towards a woman. No way!

He's that same guy that is "new" to this bar and the word has already spread. "Have you met this guy yet?" He knows how to work the room; he's got that comfortable, confident vibe going. He smiles, he's pleasant, he dresses well, the bartenders know him and joke with him. And here he comes, over to talk to YOU.

So you talk to him and find out a few key things about him. You find out he's got no "issues" (you tick that off), he's not dating anyone else and you tend to believe him (tick that off), rapport was created instantly and you feel like you've known him your whole life (tick that BIG one off), he's got CLASS and HUMOR and RESPECT, things those idiot "bad boys" never had, as they sit over there so smug and treat you like yesterday's newspaper.

So you make a second date and this "clean, good guy" communicates to you somehow, some way, that Good Things are to be had on the horizon. You start going on amazing, romantic dates, instead of one "ride on a bad boy's bike". This guy didn't just take off and leave you forever. There is something to be said about commitment. Women DO want someone who will treat them right. Just ask a lot of divorced women.