When a man pampers and spoils me and attends to my sexual needs and desires. I don't mind at all helping him feel good, but what about me? Not many men can see past their own dicks to notice there's another human being in the room with them, with real feelings and capable of intense lust and capable of deep sexual satisfaction, if they would only bother trying to unleash that side of me. But when I do find a man who DOES understand like that (I've been with only 3 such men in my lifetime so far), the sex can be AMAZING!!!!