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Kelsey000.Posted "What do guys notice first about a girl?" So ladies i'm throwing it back at you.What do girls notice first about a guy,face,smile,hands etc etc? p.s Thankyou Kelsey hope you dont mind xx
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What do girls notice first?
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I moved this topic to Ask The Gals.
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Height and hair, after that I'll notice his eyes, smile and hands (hands are important!) but at first glance, it's all about the height and hair. If he's tall, I'll take a second look, haha.
In all seriousness, it's not a conscious decision, it's just what I notice.
In all seriousness, it's not a conscious decision, it's just what I notice.
Velvet-Voiced Titillator
At a distance I would say body shape, I like tall men with broad well defined shoulders, up close I would have to say the eyes. I think it's true when they say that the eyes are the window to the soul, and you can tell a lot about someone by looking them in the eyes.
All that being said, the physical side of things is purely for determining if you find them physically arousing. That doesn't mean anything other than you find them attractive, if I don't like their personality then it will go no further than a quick glance. (and maybe a second look for really hot guys) :-p
All that being said, the physical side of things is purely for determining if you find them physically arousing. That doesn't mean anything other than you find them attractive, if I don't like their personality then it will go no further than a quick glance. (and maybe a second look for really hot guys) :-p
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On a beach, I notice body first. When fully clothed on the city streets, I notice face first.
So... it depends on the circumstance, how close they're standing to me, and how much of them is overtly visible.
In general though, I probably first take notice of general physique, body type etc.
So... it depends on the circumstance, how close they're standing to me, and how much of them is overtly visible.
In general though, I probably first take notice of general physique, body type etc.
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Believe it or not it's the smile lines at the corner of his eyes. If there's no smile lines I wouldn't look twice.
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I guess the eyes and the smile for me. It's that first thing I look for to see if the guy is a jerk or if he is someone I want to be with. My husband had the most awesome smile when I met him and it sold me on him. His expression when i first meet him. His build. the way he dresses.yup in that order
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What they are doing, when I met Mr Sweets, I saw him sitting alone reviewing footage he shot of the play I was in and I noticed he had a lot of alcohol cans scattered around him. Yeah I knew he was at least tipsy and he seemed obsorbed in looking at the footage until he looked up and smiled at me. That's when I saw his eyes and that boyish smile.
I walked up to him.
I walked up to him.
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Height, build, hair, then face...face is the clincher!
Artistic Tart
If he's not naked? Height and shape.
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It's an order that I've noticed myself repeating at over time.. Height, body build, eyes, smile, then accessing their personality of course 
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If he's not naked? Height and shape.
And if he is naked?
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And if he is naked?
"Whoa, that guy's naked!"
At this point, I still probably notice the overall shape first, but not necessarily height, because everything else is laid bare (literally) in front of me. Is he a pudgy tub of goo? Does he look emaciated? If so, I probably look away, unless it's so remarkably bad that it becomes like a car crash and I can't look away.
But if the guy's body isn't bad, then I look at his chest, and then scan down quickly: abs, schlong, legs. Then up to the face and maybe at that point I've assessed how tall he is. By this time, perhaps I'm salivating ever so slightly.
Beyond that, we're beyond first impressions, and I start to wonder things like, "why is this guy naked?"
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his eyes, then smile, and lastly his voice.
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it depends... if something about him really stands out, being unusually tall or short, heavy or thin, you can't really not notice that. that said, in most cases, my eyes are drawn to faces. it's really the first place i focus on if they are facing me (if not, then it's usually their ass). a good face, handsome or pretty or warm or friendly is a make or break deal for me - even the guy with a nice body, if i don't find his place pleasing, won't be as appealing to me.
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How he dresses, and if he is muscular or not
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If I'm not in really close proximity to him, I definitely notice height and body type first. If we are close, though, I immediately look at eyes and smile. If you have nice eyes and a great smile, I'm definitely hooked.
Ditto
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I usually notice the eyes first. Piercing blue eyes or gorgeous green eyes are so sexy. If there are multiple men in the room... I will look at a man with a goatee first. Goatees really turn me on!
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Height, face and eyes. In that order.