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I have been told and I quote " WTF you looking at"... I replied You...that kinda shut her up.
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Wearing slut outfits and a guy looks hard...would you get pissed or let him look?
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I guess the first question is what is your definition of a 'slut outfit'?
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Does it make a girl a slut because she wears revealing clothes no she just wants to look good. I dress for me not to impress others.
To answer your question no I don't mind them looking look all you want just don't touch. Why would I get pissed off people look or stare at you no matter what you wear sometimes they just look longer.
To answer your question no I don't mind them looking look all you want just don't touch. Why would I get pissed off people look or stare at you no matter what you wear sometimes they just look longer.
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I'm not a Gal, but I think it would be appropriate to answer. I got into a check out line at a major supermarket in New Orleans mid afternoon. I was behind a black couple checking out. She was unloading the shopping cart. She was in a very tight and very short dress that barely covered her butt cheeks. It was very low cut with a lot of cleavage exposed. She was not wearing a bra. She was leaning over to get their groceries out of the buggy. I thought her boobs were going to fall out. She also had on a pair of CFM heels. I only had sandwich and a banana. I placed them on the belt and was just standing there waiting for the cashier to finish there purchase.
The black guy looked at me with anger in his face and very arrogantly ask me, "what the fuck are you looking at."
I told him, "I will look at any thing I want to".
"This is my woman and stop looking at her. You ain't going to get any of her."
"If you don't want her looked at, don't take her out dressed like a slut. It's hard not to see her as y'all are standing in front of me. You can keep her, there is nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing, she could do for me. I'm not in the least bit interested in her, and not particularly pleased she is standing there half naked."
He got really pissed off. When they walked out she was strutting like a stripper. He stopped just out side the door of the store, as she went to the car. The security guard told me, "they do that often, would you like me to escort you to your car? He tries to pick fights." I'll be ok and showed him my badge and gun.
He started following me to my car shouting obscenities to me. As I got to my car I told him, "don't come any closer", as I placed my hand on my gun raising my shirt enough for him to see my badge and gun. He shouted more obscenities, as he backed up and went to his car.
I told him, "if you follow me I will arrest you".
I never saw him again.
Brandie (NOLAHotGal) dresses very sexy in the appropriate places like a swing club or one of our group parties. She does like to know she is being looked at.
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The black guy looked at me with anger in his face and very arrogantly ask me, "what the fuck are you looking at."
I told him, "I will look at any thing I want to".
"This is my woman and stop looking at her. You ain't going to get any of her."
"If you don't want her looked at, don't take her out dressed like a slut. It's hard not to see her as y'all are standing in front of me. You can keep her, there is nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing, she could do for me. I'm not in the least bit interested in her, and not particularly pleased she is standing there half naked."
He got really pissed off. When they walked out she was strutting like a stripper. He stopped just out side the door of the store, as she went to the car. The security guard told me, "they do that often, would you like me to escort you to your car? He tries to pick fights." I'll be ok and showed him my badge and gun.
He started following me to my car shouting obscenities to me. As I got to my car I told him, "don't come any closer", as I placed my hand on my gun raising my shirt enough for him to see my badge and gun. He shouted more obscenities, as he backed up and went to his car.
I told him, "if you follow me I will arrest you".
I never saw him again.
Brandie (NOLAHotGal) dresses very sexy in the appropriate places like a swing club or one of our group parties. She does like to know she is being looked at.
Nawty
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They look even if I'm not wearing a slutty outfit, so... let 'em look.
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It is amazing to me that this is even a real thread. Seriously? A slut? I'm unclear as to what your definition of 'slutty dressing' is. A working girl trying to pick up a John dresses very slutty (i hate that word, btw). But, a woman in a short skirt, or short shorts, a low cut shirt, or let's say even a skimpy bikini top on, that's her right. If it's hot outside I see no reason why she should automatically be called a slut. It's this kind of thinking that creates victim blaming in a . Women by nature want to look pretty just like men by nature want to look masculine.
Putting women down for it by throwing out words like 'slut' and 'whore' is a misogynistic, archaic and creates a dangerous attitude. (She was dressed like a slut, she was asking for it...)
Respect is what it's all about. Looking is one thing, but totally gawking is something a 13 year old would do.
So what if she bends over and you can see her undies. She probably doesn't mind the attention but treating her with disrespect is something else all together.
Putting women down for it by throwing out words like 'slut' and 'whore' is a misogynistic, archaic and creates a dangerous attitude. (She was dressed like a slut, she was asking for it...)
Respect is what it's all about. Looking is one thing, but totally gawking is something a 13 year old would do.
So what if she bends over and you can see her undies. She probably doesn't mind the attention but treating her with disrespect is something else all together.
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Gawd I hate that term 'slut outfit'. Anyways, I'm married and still dress in quality nice fitting clothes to HAVE guys look. David my husband doesn't mind at all. It's a turn on for both of us and a huge compliment for me!
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The term 'slut outfit' is really unpleasant here, and does nothing to help the discussion. Are you referring to a revealing outfit, evening wear worn during the day or just someone who doesn't wear a bra?
Oh, and the correct answer to 'what are you looking at?' is, 'I don't know, the label has dropped off!'.
Oh, and the correct answer to 'what are you looking at?' is, 'I don't know, the label has dropped off!'.
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If I am wearing an outfit that I would suppose fits the "slut outfit" category, its to get the attention of those around me. I am a bit of a wallflower and tend to hang back in the background, so its a step out to wear something that would be a bit revealing. (my gosh, is that my nose shooting across the room)
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I think the point of wearing a "slutty" outfit is to get some sort of attention ...... so ya I would actually get pissed if no one watched.
Also one question.... why is it only considered slutty.... i mean i can be bold , revealing , summery.... why the term..??
Also one question.... why is it only considered slutty.... i mean i can be bold , revealing , summery.... why the term..??
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I have been told and I quote " WTF you looking at"... I replied You...that kinda shut her up.
Now let me add: "WTF you talking about?" The very use of the term "slut outfit" is patently hostile, belittling and misogynistic! I suspect you are really proud of yourself for kinda shutting HER up. You are so intelligent and brave! (and, I think, you are a jerk!)
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Now let me add: "WTF you talking about?" The very use of the term "slut outfit" is patently hostile, belittling and misogynistic! I suspect you are really proud of yourself for kinda shutting HER up. You are so intelligent and brave! (and, I think, you are a jerk!)
I read this thread earlier and thought "slut outfit"? I've been going through my closet all day....can't seem to find one. Where can I buy one. I believe, this thread is a JOKE (at least I am hoping)
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Sorry, not a gal and answering, but...if her reaction to your stare was "WTF you looking at," then I think you were coming across as threatening, not flattering.
The problem was not how they dress, but your inappropriate staring (if it was appropriate, she wouldn't have had to say WTF). Yes, many woman like to look pretty and sexy. That doesn't mean they are looking for sex, partclularly from you. It doesn't make them "sluts," whatever that means. And it doesn't give you the right to act rudely toward them.
The problem was not how they dress, but your inappropriate staring (if it was appropriate, she wouldn't have had to say WTF). Yes, many woman like to look pretty and sexy. That doesn't mean they are looking for sex, partclularly from you. It doesn't make them "sluts," whatever that means. And it doesn't give you the right to act rudely toward them.
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Sorry, not a gal and answering, but...if her reaction to your stare was "WTF you looking at," then I think you were coming across as threatening, not flattering.
The problem was not how they dress, but your inappropriate staring (if it was appropriate, she wouldn't have had to say WTF). Yes, many woman like to look pretty and sexy. That doesn't mean they are looking for sex, partclularly from you. It doesn't make them "sluts," whatever that means. And it doesn't give you the right to act rudely toward them.
You know what that means!! Lol. And did she say WTF or What The Fuck? Maybe she was not an adult. Just sayin
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You know what that means!! Lol. And did she say WTF or What The Fuck? Maybe she was not an adult. Just sayin
I think it means something different to me than it does to him.
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Well..that's what we called the attire of trailer tramp trash back in my day...Good God there are some uppity bitches trash talking the thread...
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Well..that's what we called the attire of trailer tramp trash back in my day...Good God there are some uppity bitches trash talking the thread...
"uppity bitches". just gotta say... wow.
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Yes Moderator..Probably a bad choice of words...I will endeavor to rectify that.
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Yes Moderator..Probably a bad choice of words...I will endeavor to rectify that.
no, that wasn't an official smack on the hand, just a personal little 'did he really say that' comment. fyi, bitches don't like being called uppity. trust me on that.
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I think it means something different to me than it does to him.
I think you are right. Now, I don't know what it means
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If i'd got the confidence to wear a slut outfit, which in my mind is short, tight, skimpy then I would be delighted if I got GENUINE interest. As a BBW all I usually get is fatty insults
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If i'd got the confidence to wear a slut outfit, which in my mind is short, tight, skimpy then I would be delighted if I got GENUINE interest. As a BBW all I usually get is fatty insults
Insults are just wrong..yup that aint right....
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This is a confusing question. The simplest answer is that if I'm dressing to make a certain impression then I would be happy that I accomplished what I wanted to. Generally takes for more than a skimpy outfit to get a real reaction out of a man. Attitude, touch, language, etc are all part of the way to get what you are after.
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I read this thread earlier and thought "slut outfit"? I've been going through my closet all day....can't seem to find one. Where can I buy one. I believe, this thread is a JOKE (at least I am hoping)
If you really want a sexy outfit google "Sexy Club Dresses". I know Brandie buys some of her club dresses from Yandy.com and Venus. She has some of her dresses posted on her profile, "NOLAHotGal". She does not wear them out in the general public. Only to the swing clubs or house parties. She actually likes to be called all kinds of vulgar names when playing. It is a big turn on for her which is a big turn on for me. Different strokes. I do understand that a lot of women don't like the S and W words. I also agree that regardless of how she is dresses it does not give any one the right to touch them.
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I guess the first question is what is your definition of a 'slut outfit'?
Couldn't agree more, with this comment
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I want, I need and I expect to be looked at.
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If you really want a sexy outfit google "Sexy Club Dresses". I know Brandie buys some of her club dresses from Yandy.com and Venus. She has some of her dresses posted on her profile, "NOLAHotGal". She does not wear them out in the general public. Only to the swing clubs or house parties. She actually likes to be called all kinds of vulgar names when playing. It is a big turn on for her which is a big turn on for me. Different strokes. I do understand that a lot of women don't like the S and W words. I also agree that regardless of how she is dresses it does not give any one the right to touch them.
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I want, I need and I expect to be looked at.
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Well..that's what we called the attire of trailer tramp trash back in my day...Good God there are some uppity bitches trash talking the thread...
'Slut outfit'.. 'trailer tramp trash'..
I'm imagining you are 'single'
But seriously, what a girl wears is her choice. Some might be doing so just to be looked at, some just because that's what they like. The more important thing is men choose to look, you don't have to. I think as a society, we put all the focus on what the girl is wearing and not the actions of the man. I
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My answer is I expect to be judged on my appearance. I just don't give a fuck. But thats just me. Trailer tramp trash. Lol. That's me!