Does your SO use viagra ?? Other than hopefully making an erection possible, does it affect his ability to have an ejaculation like prior to ED ?? I’m 76 years old and had prostate surgery about a year and Half ago. It’s a rare thing for me now to get enough to “shake hands” with!! How do you stimulate him if it’s even necessary??
Thanks for your time and comments. Guys please feel free to comment here also. Rick
None of my sexual partners use viagra.
I use Viagra / Sildenafil occasionally. My cock is fit and all my bits are there, it’s just age. It doesn’t cause an erection by itself. You need to get sexually aroused first. That can be the difficult part! Then it kicks in. It results in a super rock hard erection like I used to get in my teens, very sensitive to touching and masturbation. With a Viagra powered erection I can masturbate, edge and shoot a hefty load of cum. It’s very good for sex too. Take one about an hour before you anticipate getting sex.
My current partner is 59 years old and ten years older than me, and he uses Sildenafil. He doesn't have a problem getting aroused, but has a a problem maintaining an erection. When we first got together he was embarrassed about his 'Erectile Disfunction' and didn't tell me the whole truth, he just said he was tired - stressed because of a demanding job - had too much to drink etc. In our first few weeks together it had an affect on me too, I wondered if I had lost some sex appeal, maybe I wasn't doing things he liked. I even wondered if he maybe gay. I later found out that he was also going through similar self doubts. He felt like he was no longer a real man because he couldn't fuck me in the way he wanted. We sat down and discussed it openly, and with research and help from his doctor he started getting medication. We tried a few different types before we found one that not only worked (they all pretty much worked in the basic sense, but some have negative side-affects), but also reduced the post sex discomfort. The principle of all of them is to reduce the size of the blood vessels that take away blood from the penis, keeping it hard. However, they also reduce other vessels too, causing indigestion, cold symptoms and pins and needles in the hands and feet. But every man is different. Certainly consult with your doctor before taking any ED medication. We have a fantastic sex life, and yes the spontaneity of a quick fuck on the kitchen table doesn't happen, because we have to organise our sessions as it often takes 90 minutes for the medication to fully work.
Yet there is also a great deal of erotic anticipation when he whispers in my ear, "I've just taken a naughty pill". We still have nights of mutual stimulation without medication and he easily orgasms with a semi-hard cock, but we are both fans of ED medication.
