Ok I know this is under ask the gals but I'm going to jump in here.
Girls who are attracted to girls like dildos and dildo shaped objects because they have vaginas. And vaginas are designed to give pleasure when something shaped like a dildo goes into it. It's much the same reason guys enjoy masturbating or using their brands of toys, the feeling simulates what the body is designed to say feels good. If you got a handy from a guy it would probably feel pretty good, however if you were straight you probably wouldn't enjoy it because it's a guy on the other end and not being gay your not into guys. Same thing goes for lesbians.
Seriously, just like everybody possessing a bit of maturity already replied, being a lesbian is about a woman preferring other women as romantic/sexual partners. Plain and simple. What they do with their vajayjays doesn't change their orientation in any way...
Is it really that hard to apprehend?
Here's an answer with a twist as a bi sexual girl I was strap on fucking a bi sexual guy yesterday and I asked him if he liked my fake cock or the real thing better. His reply was "A guy has never fucked me this long before". Sometimes a good dildo can do a better job!
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! This is the simplest thing, and I wish it would stop coming up.
Except it's not, and we should be understanding of those who don't understand and want to, even if that desire is kind of heavy handed and brutish.
Also, it's important to keep in mind that I'm pan, not lesbian. I have a girlfriend though, and we have quite a lot of sex, so I think I'm qualified from at least a mechanical point of view. This is one of the times when it's more than a mechanical issue, though. Lots of women enjoy penetration, and for the record, I know a couple who don't - at all. Next, if a lesbian is not sexually attracted to men, that's simple. It's also advisable to remember that on the whole, women's sexualities are a bit more fluid than a man's. That is a bit of a stereotype, and it's certainly not universal, but the trend is easy to back up with facts. Also note, I've never seen data for any country besides the U.S., and we're kind of stupid about sex here, but I've wandered off the topic.
Lesbians don't want to have sex with men. I do know lesbian identified individuals who are open to the members of the trans community, both MTF and FTM. I also know lesbians who would disqualify those people from being called "lesbian", if they could. It's complex, and no one person can give you the right answer because it's a spectrum. I think that as a straight guy, your best bet is to collect your data, arrange it into that spectrum, pick something in the middle and go with it. Then if anybody challenges your assertions, you have the testimony of several other lesbians to go off of. If that's too much work, then I would just say ere on the side of caution and don't push any boundaries. Finally, remember that no lesbian wants to fuck you, so don't try.
in a totally non sexual way
would any lesbian sleep/cuddle with a straight guy??
I'm not refereeing to myself....I'm totally speaking in general...........like if he was your friend.
Im not lesbian but I have a few friends that are and they don't really like penetration that much
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It still feels good to have something stimulate you from the inside, it's what's attatched to a penis that they look like. And quite often they'll buy the dildo's that aren't shaped like a dick.
[why not?].... omg thank goodness for science and the plastics industry.. 
.......In a totally non sexual way........
