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Since you are asking for advice I assume that you must have some restrictions but are not totally opposed to the idea. Why not tell her what your concerns and limitations are. Tell her what you are willing to do and also what you are not willing to do. Set some ground rules. If she is ok with what you want then tell her to set something up and enjoy yourself.
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she wants two guys to fuck her and me to enjoy it
Are you one of the guys or just watching?
I've had threesomes a few times - even a foursome once and loved every minute of it. However these were with guys I knew as 'friends' only.
I would never consent to the same with a partner, boyfriend or anyone who is special to me. I would suggest your relationship with your g/f would be at least weakened or at worst severely damaged if you go ahead with her wishes and I'd suggest you tell her so. If she still wants to go ahead it will prove you've not got much of a potential future together anyhow.
I would never consent to the same with a partner, boyfriend or anyone who is special to me. I would suggest your relationship with your g/f would be at least weakened or at worst severely damaged if you go ahead with her wishes and I'd suggest you tell her so. If she still wants to go ahead it will prove you've not got much of a potential future together anyhow.
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I've had threesomes a few times - even a foursome once and loved every minute of it. However these were with guys I knew as 'friends' only.
I would never consent to the same with a partner, boyfriend or anyone who is special to me. I would suggest your relationship with your g/f would be at least weakened or at worst severely damaged if you go ahead with her wishes and I'd suggest you tell her so. If she still wants to go ahead it will prove you've not got much of a potential future together anyhow.
I disagree. There's nothing wrong with couples having a threesome, foursome, whatever, as long as both partners are okay with it... It's not damaging to the relationship at all if both truly are okay with it.
My advice to you Benjam: talk to her about it. Explain to her that you don't know how you feel about it. And she can explain to you her feelings about it as well. Maybe her explaining her feelings will help you to form your own feelings about it. And, if you end up not being okay with it, then you need to obviously tell her. If she's not okay with you not being okay with it, then she's not someone you need to be in a relationship with.
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it definitely depends on both partners being into it. I have had a number if threesomes and group sessions with my husband. However we both get off on seeing each other with other people and enjoying the doing the other person together thing.
I strongly suspect this is not for everybody. How do you think you will react to seeing her with another guy? if you arent 100% comfy with it then I agree with the comment that it might seriously damage your relationship
Definitely talk to her about it before jumping into anything. It is the sort of thing that once done is hard to forget it happened
I strongly suspect this is not for everybody. How do you think you will react to seeing her with another guy? if you arent 100% comfy with it then I agree with the comment that it might seriously damage your relationship
Definitely talk to her about it before jumping into anything. It is the sort of thing that once done is hard to forget it happened
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My girlfriend/room mate have been considering the same. The only catch is that we have different tastes in men.
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one of each then allie
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