It's a given that most (all?) men enjoy hearing their women talking dirty...from simple sweet phrases ("Sweetie I wish you could make love to me right now!" said in some public place), all the way to really hot and nasty dirty talk ("Cum on my face baby...I love to feel your hot cum on my face" said in the throes of passion).
So here's my question, asked as a guy who really wants to better understand women: How do you feel about talkng dirty with your guy?
as with most things like this, depends on the guy. but with the right guy, it's pretty fucking awesome.
Bring it on!! I love it , it gets me really wet..
I am a woman who has never had a problem to tell a man what i wanted...to tell him what feels good and how I would like to either have it or give it to him. So I have no drawbacks to talk dirty to a man or a woman and yes i also like them to talk dirty to me...just turns me on. However, I agree with BustyRedhead...it is not for all partners and you have to know their likes and dislikes before you go running at the mouth.
people look at me and think i am sweet and butter would not melt in my mouth,but when sex is involved i am very noisey and vocal. swear a lot encouraging the guyto do what i want not what he thinks i want, and of course love the guy to swear at me and both talk real dirty , fuck its working now mmmmmmmmmmm xx
I love it! I have never been shy of telling a guy what I want him to do as I have never been shy of asking a guy if what I am doing is what he likes. I love making noise and talking dirty. If I am in a romantic mood though and actually making love I prefer whispers in each others ears and more sweet things saying how much I love him etc and then throw into it things like 'fuck that feels so good' but say it quietly. I have never been a shouter or screamer, in fact I could probably have sex with barely a moan (years of fucking guys with my mum in the next room lol) but I do certainly enjoy sex best when I can tell the man what I want in a normal speaking volume lol. I love moaning the most then throw into it things like 'fuck me harder you fucking prick' whilst digging my nails into his back. Or if I am sucking him off lets say, I like to moan a little whilst sucking then pause and ask him 'do you like me sucking on your cock' etc then carrying on. I also love it when the guy talks dirty to me and calls me a dirty slut, whore etc but I only love that with men I love. If I was just having sex with a friends with benefits kind of bloke then I wouldn't find that acceptable.
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Talking dirty is what I have always wanted but never had any luck. I find it so hot
Mmmm, love talking dirty, makin 'em crazy hot... inciting uncontrolled passion!
Talking dirty with a partner makes me feel stimulated, literally. It also makes me know what my partner wants me to do with him and vice versa, so it's a YES to talking dirty.XA37zvakvY1JUYlg
I love talking dirty and having him talk dirty back to me. It gets us both riled up for a big finish ;)
It's definitely one of those "needful things." I think it adds a lot to fill their heads with images. ;)
Let's put it this way...I'd feel super awkward if everything was silent or there were just moans (wordless) lol. I'm so used to talking dirty with him and to him, it's second nature. I understand in the beginning of a sexual relationship, people may feel shy or awkward, etc. But in an established relationship...if you feel super awkward about letting go and having that kinda fun, maybe you shouldn't be with that person lol.
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Sometimes when making love, a little dirty talk is fun....it heats things up and can be quite inspiring. Though, sometimes, just the moaning and whispered "Oh yes!", "Like that!", or "OH BABY!" works wonders. I have also found it incredibly hot to try not to make any noise.
On the other hand, if its a hot fuck session, then it is absolutely required! Depending on the situation, and those involved, sometimes, the dirtier and louder the better. I have had lovers who love to hear me yelling about what they are doing, and I've had others who just waned it to be whispered to them how good they were making me feel. "Oh fuck baby I love the feel of your cock in my pussy!", "Fuck me harder baby!", or what the like.
I do, I do, Love it excites me more... yeah it is hot
i love talking dirty and her talking dirty back to me... i am better at it texting then in real life but im working on it ;)
With the right partner I love talking dirty
I think dirty talk is such a turn on. Like you said, whether it is something more 'PG rated' or 'R Rated'. I think that it should be something that both people in the relationship are interested in and participate in too. For example, I love it and use it all the time and my husband - takes me actually asking questions of him with the dirty talk to get him to say anything...
I love to dirty talk.
I find it hot.
I have a filthy mind with filthy thoughts.
Lol..
I'm not a dirty talker. Not to say I am silent. When I speak it is mostly me asking if it hurts too much or if I need to change the angle a little. Things like that. Or the sound of me gurnting. I'm a strong dude and pounding chicks can take is amazing. That is the main reason I make sure keep asking how she is feeling, and making it clear to her that it is okay to tell me if she needs to stop. For some reason it is very difficult for women to tell a guy she needs to stop and especially if she has just meet the guy. So I ask when I start to get the impression that her body needs a break. But other than othose types of things nope. To me it seems kind of dumb to say oh baby I'm going to stickmy dong down your throat and I want you jack me off through your throat. Instead I just stick my dick down her throat with out saying a word. Then once down in her throat i would just ask her to rub her throat. If she doesn't want you to do that or can't do it because it feels like she is going to throw up, believe me, she will tell you.
add on: maybe I will try dirty talk. Who knows maybe my girl will enjoy something stupid like that.
Bustyredhead I don't like calling any woman a whore. For some guys that works for them. For me I don't think that would work too well. It is just not me. And yes I know you're mocking me so ha-ha. You're sooo ho-larious.
I love dirty talk when it cames with a good imagination and the guy has good and hot ideas about what to do!
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Love it. Quick way to get me wet.
