I have a particular love of role play where the man is the most dominant one, (eg, see my stories), its not about inflicting pain, its more about enjoying the control and pushing the womans boundaries, Of course we always use a safeword and we always trust implicity.
My questions is.. How many women really enjoy this and how exciting does it get for you?
Also how far have you been pushed whats the kinkiest thing you have done while playing the submissive?
easydescent.
Control is the sexiest thing going I reckon - with the right guy
And it doesn't have to be restricted to role play. You can build your relationship on it, just set your own rules and get on and enjoy it all day, everyday. It featured in my wedding vows "love honor and obey," so it's nothing new.
There are times when I enjoy being in control and there are times when I enjoy being submissive to my man. Our marriage is fluid in that sense and sex for us is intimate play-time where we experiment and enjoy each other in different ways depending on our moods.
Welcome to the forum, easy. My girl, the stunning Tech Goddess, is sub, and would love to answer you in this thread.
I don't know the meaning of the word, sorry.
LOL! Now why did I know you two would think that?
I love when things are out of my control. It's hot to me for a boy to tell me what to do, especially if it's something that makes me really nervous. Once my b/f talked me into going down on his friend! I didn't want to at first but it was really hot! He watched me do it and I've never been so wet in my life! Afterwords, he made me cum harder than he ever has before! I wouldn't ever have done something like that. I loved it!
Surely there are more views out there regarding D/s and BDSM. Let's hear them.
I really enjoy it, but only with someone who I really trust. For me it's not about being controlled, or the pain, it's more about the closeness of it all. I find bondage especially erotic. And although I love the whips and chains as well it's different, more.... special and personal
I haven't ever been in a relationship where I trusted the other enough to indulge... but I do find it erotic and extremely sexy to imagine myself being submissive to my partner's wishes.
Ling
miss.. an adorable attitude.. u are a good girl.. come sit on my knees..
but seriously.. I enjoy the role play .. but at the end of the day am looking for a partner not a child...
so as long as we know we are playing.. all it is good..
.. I was once the fastest and most victorious little sperm out of millions...
It really turns me on to be submissive. I don't know what the kinkest thing I have ever done is.
I am the sub to my Mistresses, their girlfriends & all the men who want to service me.
I enjoy being submissive, it brings out the feminine side and a great sense of security that I can trust a man enough to be vulnerable to him.
The whole being submissive to my partner is a turn on BIG TIME!!! I love to please my partner and when he gets that tone...gawd sends shivers down my spine...
No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy -unless you let him.
- Napoleon Hill
Okay, I am more of a sub then anything I like the whole idea, but am still new at it all.....
"Haters make me FAMOUS!!!"
Sassy
Submissive since I can remember,being defenceless is a body and mind thrill for me.
Submissive since I can remember,being defenceless is a body and mind thrill for me.
Usually alternate depends on the mood and the person(s)
I am not a Submissive, but I can play the role. At the same time I will not deny the fear and thrill from this kind of game.
I've been submissive with other women, but never men. Dominant men aren't in my repertoire.