Quote by amyset
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Wellmademale speaking of the reading/understanding and compliance of the guidelines you called them out on for breaking and then seemed to make it somewhat personal it seemed! since these particular is not something you enjoy, can grasp the concept of, or understand why many strong, confident, and sexy women such as myself find the role playing of these 's, fetishes, and fantasies a huge turn on! This doesn't mean we condone or ! And as a survivor (not a victim) of BOTH of these in real life i think i have a little better perspective then most. And just because you and this unconfirmed "Great majority" of people don't understand or appreciate that others can not only enjoy it but feels somewhat safer knowing that people can get there fantasies played in WITHOUT having them build up and build up with no outlet to release until the only options they see is making that pent up, gnawing, and increasingly hard to handle until they break and its no longer just a harmless fantasy but a horrible reality that is change if not shatter many life forever. What i dont think you realize is that it isnt the people role playing these fantasies and finding safe ways to release these feeling with others who are consenting and enjoy the same thing. it is the ones that have to hide, repress, and be terrified of these thoughts they cant just make go away like you seem to think everyone can! Most likely someone or people like yourself that has spent years hiding fear of them instead of openly talking about it since they have seen how you shaming, insulting, and out casting anyone that just merely mentions the topics around you (or on an ADULT FANTASY website for that matter) them for this urge that they feel they are all alone in the world with NO ONE teach them how to deal with it. Moral of the story is just because you dont understand it, or enjoy it doesn't mean you shouldn't THINK before you over react to what others do enjoy and understand. This is role is simply a role play type fantasy that adults use as there outlet the same as any other role play fantasy you yourself may use/like to release your demons safely and in a enjoyable way for those involved!. So dont judge what you dont understand, dont alienate people with ignorance, and try to look though they eyes of someone before putting them down or calling them out, you never know who you maybe are pushing closer to harm. I know you made your statement about not debating, defending your whatever so think of this as a opportunity to educate yourself on a subject you maybe lacking in. And a refresher on the guidelines you were so quick to point out,
We wish to keep the front of the site free of hardcore content, so please do not post images in your avatar, which are of a "sexually explicit" nature. As a peace loving site, we do not allow images containing war, GUNS or violence in avatars.
And is the a COLT hanging out of Doc's vest i see!?
Thx have a good one
First of all, welcome to Lush.
No one is knocking your fetishes and role playing preferences. The rules aren't biased...just because he expressed a strong anti- stance doesn't negate the fact that is a banned topic outside of stories verified by Lush story moderators. That seems to be the only point he was making, from what I gathered. And being that this post is like 9 months old, I'm fairly certain that his point was made and understood as it should have been. He wasn't attacking someone for liking ...he was just pointing out that discussing it on the site is a direct violation of site policy while simply stating that he abhors . He didn't make the non- rule, but violators of this rule and any others will be addressed accordingly...no matter what the justification of said violation is.
As far as his avatar goes, I don't see a gun.
