Both have a time and place. I like the hunger and intensity of rough wild sex. I like the animalistic nature of it. The knowledge that he wants you so bad the is no controlling the desire to take you right now.
Love both, depends on the mood (what a female response lol). And I don't always necessarily want to have sex for the sole purpose of an orgasm. I'm kinda like a guy when it comes to orgasming (needing the more hardcore sex than slow sensual kind to cum). That satisfies me physically. But emotionally and even mentally, the slow, sensual kind is very needed for me, and sometimes I couldn't care less if I came or not. The intimacy of the kissing, caressing, massaging, touching, being plastered together, staring into each others' eyes, the slow sensual movements...food for the heart.
~*~*~* Only the one that hurts you can make you feel better ~*~*~*
~*~*~* Only the one that inflicts pain can take it away~*~*~*
Check out my latest story: Drawn to Addy - Part 2 Absolutely. Both rough and sensual sex create such a special bond and each are equally important.
When i want rough sex its intense, its a need to be fulfilled there and then, fuck the nicety just give it no holding back at all. to do so would absolutely piss me off no teasing allowed i can feel that energy building to a state where the more physical he is the better if he isn't then I will be!
sensual sex to me is reconnecting reassuring, knowing. time there is none, just two people completely dedicated to each other, utter bliss if you have that you have everything.
I like and need them both each is important, as is the person.
I prefer gentle and slow most of the time.
I personally rely on a lot of touching and kissing to achieve a good orgasm. Rough sex does not provide the necessary foreplay and sensations for me to have a memorable climax or a climax at all. Also, the longer it is dragged out, the better and more intense the orgasm tends to be. With rough sex it usually ends quickly, whereas slow and sensual sex lets it build up gradually to a higher level.
Noone has both? During sex - we shift. If we have time, anyway. Start rough, slow down. Start slow and get frisky. Go back and forth.
Sometimes I love slow and passionate love making and there are times I love rough and dirty sex
Well I sorta agree with Kim. I adore tons of foreplay and I want that for sure, but it has to lead to something intense right? Slow at the beginning and light....especially on my nipples which are very sensitive...but it has to build and you both want the intensity to build up into an intense flame. I agree with Kim.....if the guy comes too early and just whimpers and shoots his load and starts to shrivel up and go soft....well.....the girl is NOT going to be very happy right? A guy can be slow and patient as he builds you up....that's good for sure....but he has to know when to take you to the next level, if he doesn't sense your body building then well he's just not that good in bed. As he builds you up the speed, the intensity, everything is going to go to another level, and then another, and then another.....until you EXPLODE!!
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playing with my nipples is a must and kissing my neck in just the right spot, taking time with these is a must for going over the edge. But going down on me right away doesn't get me as excited. I love the foreplay for hours, ok well long minutes mmmmm
Both have their part, the finesses is being able to judge when they should be used....
Slow, sensual sex can reduce inhibitions and lead to so much more and build bonds of trust so rough sex and other forms of sexual expression are possible.
Yes and yes and for all the same reasons already mentioned.
