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Size matters for people who are in it just for sex, otherwise it doesn't. If you are after a relationship it is better to have a suitable guy who's small or only average, over a well endowed guy who's a total prick. For me, I look for relationships not sex when it comes to real life so for me size doesn't matter at all. It's the person behind the cock that makes it worthwhile, not the cock itself. When you love someone enough, anything feels amazing.
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I admit, I've read the girls reply with much interest. As a member of the penis owner's club, it's my girth that has caused all the trouble especially when I was younger as women my own age found it a little challenging. Certainly, in my late-teens, early 20s I was happier with slighty older women.

One very forward girlfriend told me about all the cocks she'd had, the longer ones hit the wrong places - like the cervix. This is not a sensual place to bang with your equipment.

In extensive research , I've been led to the conclusion that it's girth that works and there is a minimum length. If they can hop on for the ride and not worry about maintaining a minimum safe distance from the hilt of your cock - all the better too.
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Quote by TheTravellingMan
I admit, I've read the girls reply with much interest. As a member of the penis owner's club, it's my girth that has caused all the trouble especially when I was younger as women my own age found it a little challenging. Certainly, in my late-teens, early 20s I was happier with slighty older women.

One very forward girlfriend told me about all the cocks she'd had, the longer ones hit the wrong places - like the cervix. This is not a sensual place to bang with your equipment.

In extensive research , I've been led to the conclusion that it's girth that works and there is a minimum length. If they can hop on for the ride and not worry about maintaining a minimum safe distance from the hilt of your cock - all the better too.


Yes, this exactly. Girth matters much more to women, yet we only hear about length.

Concerning length, a woman's vagina is only about 5-6 inches deep ; a penis longer than that only stretches it.

I think the ideal size for most women would be 6-7 inches long, with a girth of around 6 inches.
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Speaking only about sex and not a life partner. The operator behind the penis has a LOT to do with how a penis feels inside me be it short or, be it huge. I have been with well endowed guys that almost made me fall asleep while fucking me and, I have been with small guys that gave me orgasms that made me squirt all over the bed. I personally enjoy a larger penis in my vagina but along with the length I like the girth too. When I cum my vagina likes to have something large inside it to grip. Granted there is the occasional thrust that hits my cervix and makes me jump but I still enjoy it. With anal sex I have not had any penis that was too large.
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it has to be bigger than 5" and less than 9". Honestly too big will hurt and too small well that's obvious.
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I've honestly been with some REALLY tiny girls. Well, between 5' and 5'5. Just 6 inches was a lot for them. Sometimes even less than that was a lot.


I don't think 5-5'5 is really tiny. I'm shorter than that.

Bigger isn't always better in my book. My body type makes it so that smaller than 5 is still filling and pleasurable enough to give me no complaints, probably smaller than that too. My husband is around 6-7' and it took a long time for everything to fit in completely. And over 8' is a no go for me. When I hear men on here talking about 10' and 12' cocks my vagina closes at the thought.

I know length seems to be the be all and end all but girth is as important if not more so. Too big and she is giving birth backwards. Too little and well... If it doesn't touch the sides it doesn't count.

So in answer to the question yes size matters but it doesn't mean every man has to be hung like a bull.
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Yes, this exactly. Girth matters much more to women, yet we only hear about length.

Well said! As a woman I've always found the whole size issue matters a whole lot more to guys. Its really not a big deal to me. Girth and shape matter more, and a man whose main mission is to please a women whatever God-given equipment he has will always be more of a winner than some guy who expects praise for simply having an enormous salami. *shrugs*
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I've got a 6.5 inch length, 6 inch girth...never had a single complaint from a lady! None ever sais something like, "wish you had 8 inches babe!" Nope, nothing like it. Just a bunch of moaning and groaning after entering her and giving her pussy a good workout.
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As someone only packing 4.5" when hard looks like I fail to meet the minimum size for most of the women here.
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Size? Not really, its that thing attached to the cock that makes a difference to me....You know, the guy. If the cock is very large, and its owner is a tender lover, great, if it is small and the attached man is willing to take the time to satisfy me fine as well. If he has the perfect fit but is a total jerk...well I guess his cock won't satisfy me regardless of how skilled he is because he has not satisfied my heart.
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Without a shadow of a doubt! 6 inch absolute minimum, don't make me get my ruler! x
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As someone only packing 4.5" when hard looks like I fail to meet the minimum size for most of the women here.


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We welcome all sizes.
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Yes size does matter to me. I personally like to fuck cocks 8" to 10" are the best for me. If a woman says size does not matter. She never fuck a really big cock before.
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Quote by mommylisa
There is a minimum length to ride the ride -- but anything more is fun too if you know what you are doing.

What is the minimum length to ride? PS a tiny guy asking lol
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It's the guy attached that counts...is he interesting...can he make me laugh...Basically do I enjoy his company. I think looking at a larger cock, handling it, licking and playing with it is fun...I do like larger cocks, but once they get past that nine inch long mark it takes recovery time. I get sore, like bruised inside, and that isn't something I enjoy. I do like thicker as opposed to thin though. I've had guys that were too big, and I think I'll never do that again, but If it were to come up again (pun intended)...I have to admit... if I like the guy I'm fascinated with large cocks.
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It's not his size but his knowledge.
I'll admit a well endowed guy does feel great,but most finish first.
The guys that are average(or shorter)seem to last longer and use combined techniques to bring me to mind blowing orgasms(a few have even made me gush like a firehose).
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it matters…
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Quote by Ciri
it matters…
to what extent?
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girth is better for girl who came stretch big enough to accommodate a baby's head...but not for a guy whose mouth has no where near that much elasticity
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As a short woman who is short inside as well, I find those long monster cocks in porn scary-looking. Average or larger circumference would be a plus, though.
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The reason girth actually does matter is that the guy can be completely clueless about technique and angles and still manage to stay in contact with the G Spot, while us guys with more normal dicks actually have to try to stimulate the G Spot while we fuck. That is why there are jokes about guys tying a two by four to their asses when having sex with certain women. It has nothing at all to do with length in 90% of the cases. Since the G Spot is located within four inches of the entrance of the vagina, there is no logical reason why a man with a four inch dick or more can't learn how to please almost any woman, unless she just has a psychological obsession with the idea of a monster cock. I haven't measured my dick since I was about 15, but I have no experience with dick shaming with my six inch dick. I refuse to play that bullshit game.
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Thanks Metilda for being honest, not that other women replying are not honest.
Many women will say it does not mater when in fact it does matter, and it will end up effecting the relationship at some point.

I am average so I am told and from guys I have seen erect I guess I am for the most part.
One lady friend was a lot of fun in bed but I could tell she was larger in size than prior partners I had been with in bed.
We had fun and I am creative with oral which she enjoyed, but I do not think it was as satisfying as a intercourse orgasms for her.

I also did not have tighter feeling I enjoyed with past sex partners, it is hard for me to explain the feeling.
We never were exclusive and at one point she did become exclusive to a male friend who was much larger than me.
Some years later over some wine she told me I was the best guy at oral she had ever been with, but enjoyed the full feeling.

I thanked her for her honesty, we clicked in most other ways and were getting closer emotionally at one point.
If we had gotten close and she tolerated the smaller size I would think at some point she would seek more.
I just recall the fond memories of the fun we had and how open and honest she was about size and her needs.

Sometimes I wonder if this is not one of the reasons men and or women cheat later in their marriage.
Women and men come in different sizes, men are just easier to see the difference when erect.
I would much prefer a woman be open and honest with me than satisfy with something less, and regret it later.


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It does to me. Apologies to all the guys out there who aren't endowed. I'm shallow and self centered. I've never been with a small guy. I've been with average and up. Average was ok I guess. Gspot orgasms were hit or miss during sex. Bigger is better. Gspot orgasms are guaranteed.

Others don't care and that's great. If my husband was small I probably wouldn't know what I was missing.
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Nope, doesn't matter. I could never imagine spending time to get to know somebody and then when I finally get into their pants, being disappointed. I've been with smaller and larger, and I really couldn't compare the two. I can say though, the smaller was much better with his hands and mouth, than the bigger cock guy- he relied mostly on his penis....
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To me it does - nothing too short or too long - but as thick as you like.
I am comfortable with up to 8 inches. Above that there is usually internal discomfort afterwards..
If its under 6 inches it has to be really short - say three or four and KNOW HOW TO USE IT. Generally they are aware of their deficiency and try harder to please, and have been quite successful with me.
They all taste the same irrespective of length.
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Metilda totally agree...Size does matter to me..sorry..


Finally an honest answer from a woman about size, unless you're not a woman?
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Big or small, they have to know how to use it. If given a choice I'd go bigger though ;)
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I have had more orgasms with smaller men and wonder if this was due to their often present zealous and steadfast approach to pleasing me first.
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I have had more orgasms with smaller men and wonder if this was due to their often present zealous and steadfast approach to pleasing me first.

Probably. I have a big penis. In younger days the reaction from girls when they first saw it was enough to make me think the size was enough and sex was bound to be good for her. So I didn't feel the need to make effort. Guessing that a smaller guy would make more effort to compensate?
Fortunately I dated a girl who explained that actually the way I was using size made it a bad thing. Hard to hear at the time but very grateful later.
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Size doesn't matter as long as you're at least 6 inches.


Sooo it matters.
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Size as well as duration