About a year ago I shared with my wife the fantasy of seeing her with another man. We have role played and bought toys, I know she wants to do it how can I make it happen.....help!
Talk to her openly and honestly about how the thought of seeing her with another man really excites you, ask her how she genuinely feels about it. Discuss the pro's and con's: could this destroy your marriage or do you feel it would make you stronger. Discuss people you both are interested in asking to be the other man, and where you would like this to happen.
Slippery slope my friend. Make sure you're BOTH on the same page about it and that you're thinking with your brains and not just your cock and/or pussy. Once that bell has been rung, there is no undoing it.
My hubby loves sharing me weather he joins in or watches. I think his favorite is me swallowing his cock down my throat while a man is ramming away at my pussy. He can't hold out long. When the guy fucking my pussy cums so does he and I swallow it all. After a session with up to three other guy, our one-on-one sex is unbelievable for the next 2-4 weeks. He loves it, I love it. Nobody is hurt. Anybody can say no. I don't know why everyone doesn't do this if their marriage is strong enough.
me and my girlfriend share girls for threesomes. so theres no cheating involved if shes in it too. we both love it and theres no flaws yet. the occasional jealousy, but its forgotten within the minute lol
This only works if you both are agreeable, and very into this kind of lifestyle, you cannot "convince" her to do it. To try to do so is a slippery slope to divorce...
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
I wouldn't do it. Have the fantasy of doing it with my wife as I am someone other than me & playing Role Playing...