Some of my most favorite porn, comes from watching shared/3sum/ etc. That said , I tried to get my first wife (virgin), to try it. She refused for years but eventually over a 29 year period blew 2 guys, she told me about one and denied the other. My question is this, especially for the one's like my wife. What were your thoughts at the time ? IE: was it, this is great! This is so much bigger than..., I hate this , but if it is what he wants.......You see where I am going. Answer please even if he never knew. The reason being, when I watch above mentioned porn, I try to think what is going through her mind ?
"Yeah, yeah. So what's new? Why am I being treated like chattel? Who cares what HE wants when I'm the one getting used? I think I'm going to give a woman a try. I mean what can I loose? Not a lot that I can see -- or feel. And no, he's not going to know. He's always got his porny toons."
Hey guys, find out if your potential mate is into this stuff BEFORE you marry her, cuz most women aren't, and its kind of a double-ratty thing (see what I did there? :-) to pressure her into performing sexual acts she's not willing to do. My boyfriend got together with me after I told him he HAD to share me with other women cuz I was bi-sexual, then the sharing me with other guys too just developed naturally after learning my sexual history. But you seem to be directing your question to wives who have been pressured to have sex with other guys against their better nature. Right?
Pretty much Beffer, OR did they secretly enjoy the freedom. Just natural feelings. I have seen some homemade videos where the wife seemed Pizzed and others where she seems happy as a lark.
Loving one person is one thing, but only enjoying a physical relationship with one person is too much to demand of some of us.
I’ve had several guys share me but it was just sex for fun. I didn’t love any of them.
