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Well I have only had one partner in my life and I was with him for almost three years. So no condoms. I hate them so much.
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sex with condom or without condom
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i know condoms r 4 safety but there rubbish ! n actually pulling off a used condom ! the pits ! to me safe sex is - stick it in her ass n cum in her face ! she aint gettin pregnant !
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It really depends on who I/we are with. I actually hate condoms and love sex without. Love to feel the heat of the cum.
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I have had only one cock in my life and we used a condom 5 times then I was curious and jump on him without one! AMAZING!!! We never looked back!
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After a lifetime of the message about being less likely to pick up infections and the H.I.V virus by using a condom, I was very surprised, when I first joined Lush, to see how many people don't/won't use them..
I see nothing wrong with long-term partners using nothing, but unless both myself and my partner had been tested for sure, I wouldn't want to have sex without a condom. It's one thing wanting to truly feel his cock being soaked with my juices inside me, but quite another to consider his cock may be the carrier of infection from somebody else's vagina or anus! No thanks.
I see nothing wrong with long-term partners using nothing, but unless both myself and my partner had been tested for sure, I wouldn't want to have sex without a condom. It's one thing wanting to truly feel his cock being soaked with my juices inside me, but quite another to consider his cock may be the carrier of infection from somebody else's vagina or anus! No thanks.
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It's a trust issue, really.
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without condom!!!!!!!
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There has to be trust before I bed a man and when there is that trust, I want to feel him the way nature made him and know I have nothing to fear disease-wise, and I physically can no longer get pregnant so just let it flow deep into me.
With pleasure ill cum in you
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I know this is ask the gals, but there is absolutely nothing better than feeling a woman around your cock and cumming inside her pussy. Best. Anything. Ever.
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Seems I have the same opinion as most. Tried with condoms for a while at the start of the relationship. Tried it without, and have never looked back.. Feels so much better!
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OMG WTF!
It's called SAFE SEX for a reason.
Unless you can guarentee 100% that both partners are totally monogamous then you are at risk. The number of HIV cases is on the rise again in the gay world as well. You're playing Russian Roulette with your life. If you'd seen the painful deaths that some people with AIDS suffer you'd soon change your mind.
KEEP IT WRAPPED!
It's called SAFE SEX for a reason.
Unless you can guarentee 100% that both partners are totally monogamous then you are at risk. The number of HIV cases is on the rise again in the gay world as well. You're playing Russian Roulette with your life. If you'd seen the painful deaths that some people with AIDS suffer you'd soon change your mind.
KEEP IT WRAPPED!
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If im playing,condoms are a MUST! I prefer without as all do,but,only in a checked out longtime relationship.
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With! Never really understand the fuzz.
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cover it up, dont want any drains on my income. So safe sex all the way.
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without. I'm allergic to latex
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without. I'm allergic to latex
http://www.durex.co.uk/products/condoms/latex-free/
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A condom covers the heat of passion. Give me hot skin, if I were a woman.DVZfM5h7aXzCxXwl
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I'm not allergic to latex, but I just don't enjoy the feeling that much. I use them, of course, but it's more of a protective measure against disease, rather than the other thing. I have an IUD and I don't have a particularly functional reproductive system to begin with, but no doctor's ever been able to give me a straight answer about whether it's impossible or just extremely unlikely that I'll ever get pregnant.
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I know this is 'ask the gals' but had to put in my wooden nickle.
Yes, M'Lady and I are in an open relationship, but our circle of friends is quite small and all have been tested.
Inside our circle, we don't worry about STD's as we are all quite loyal to the rules that if we 'play' outside that circle, then condoms/dental dams/what ever are a must.
Yes, M'Lady and I are in an open relationship, but our circle of friends is quite small and all have been tested.
Inside our circle, we don't worry about STD's as we are all quite loyal to the rules that if we 'play' outside that circle, then condoms/dental dams/what ever are a must.
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Without please
Advanced Wordsmith
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Without but I will make somebody get tested before anything and I am on birth control.
Alpha Blonde
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Quote by Shylass
After a lifetime of the message about being less likely to pick up infections and the H.I.V virus by using a condom, I was very surprised, when I first joined Lush, to see how many people don't/won't use them..
I see nothing wrong with long-term partners using nothing, but unless both myself and my partner had been tested for sure, I wouldn't want to have sex without a condom. It's one thing wanting to truly feel his cock being soaked with my juices inside me, but quite another to consider his cock may be the carrier of infection from somebody else's vagina or anus! No thanks.
I know, right? This thread surprises me too. Obviously everyone 'prefers' no condom but not using them for casual sex (ie. one-nighters, fuckbuddies and casual hook-ups) is so unbelievably risky.
On the other hand, the anti-condom sentiment does make sense, considering 1 in 4 people carry the virus for genital herpes (and often don't know because it can pop up years later). I heard of one story from a doctor friend, where a woman had gotten married and two years into the marriage, she ended up giving herpes to her hubby and he was convinced she had cheated on him, when really she was just harbouring the virus (unknown) from her earlier wilder days. Also - please remember that with herpes you don't need to visually see a break-out for the virus to be transmissible - the virus sheds in the skin cells all the time - whether there are blisters or not. The majority of transmissions (70%) occur when the person isn't showing symptoms at all. Another one you don't want to get that is very prevalent (and is the most common STI) is HPV (warts) and that is another one that is not curable and can eventually lead to cervical or oral cancer risks. That's to say nothing about the risk of HIV/AIDS - the scariest one of them all.
Guys and girls - please really think before rolling the dice. Some of these STIs carry a lifetime membership card. Is it really worth it for a drunken night with some random person from the bar? Everyone should be carrying a condom in their wallet/purse - 'just incase' the other person doesn't have one.
Sorry, I know this stuff isn't 'sexy' and you've probably heard it all before - but really - a condom isn't *that* big of a deal until you're in a situation where you can play safe. The reason I feel strongly about it is that I know people that fall into all the situations described above and they are very normal people - it's not a matter of "oh that doesn't happen in my demographic" or "don't worry, I can tell if someone looks clean". I'm all for unprotected sex once you're in a steady relationship or know the testing situation of partners, but for casual stuff - it's so not worth the risk.
Ok, I'm off the soapbox.
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My GF and I have a fuck buddy who we both totally trust. We have all been tested for STI/STD and are clean. But we still use condoms. Tests are not 100% and life is just to precious to take unnecessary risks. We know he has sex with some other women and he always wears one with them too. Of course we all would prefer to not use them but it really isn't that big of a deal.
We always make the putting on of the condom part of the foreplay, LOL!!
If I was to have a one-nighter, a condom would be an absolute requirement!!
We always make the putting on of the condom part of the foreplay, LOL!!
If I was to have a one-nighter, a condom would be an absolute requirement!!
Cryptic Vigilante
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Ok, I'm off the soapbox.
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Seriously, wearing a condom really is a no-brainer to me for casual sex. If a girl was to accept/request that I fuck her without a condom, that would just be the greatest incitative for me to actually wear one ; if she accepts a random guy (me) to bang her without protection, surely I wouldn't be the first to do the same. Huge STDs alert right there!
Fortunately, I've always been prepared and not a single girl ever argued against using a condom with me. It was actually almost a turn-on for most of them, seeing that I took care of that and wasn't arguing about it myself.
Wearing a condom is really not a big deal anyway ; nowadays there are so many varieties to choose from that they're almost fun to use.
Gingerbread Lover
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My GF and I have a fuck buddy who we both totally trust. We have all been tested for STI/STD and are clean. But we still use condoms. Tests are not 100% and life is just to precious to take unnecessary risks. We know he has sex with some other women and he always wears one with them too. Of course we all would prefer to not use them but it really isn't that big of a deal.
We always make the putting on of the condom part of the foreplay, LOL!!
If I was to have a one-nighter, a condom would be an absolute requirement!!
I'd like to try putting a condom on a lad with my mouth.
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i even make my dildos wear condoms - you never know!
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Casual fuck - condom every time, to do anything else is plain stupid.
From then on into a relationship, then ideally not, but you have to have and gain trust in your partner, so talk is vital. If you can't trust then cover it up, and if she objects then talk about it all again.
Of course if it is just about contraception, then there are a range of good alternatives, all down to the woman though, and some women can't tolerate the pill, or iuds or...in which case, its the condom or take the risk with rhythm.
From then on into a relationship, then ideally not, but you have to have and gain trust in your partner, so talk is vital. If you can't trust then cover it up, and if she objects then talk about it all again.
Of course if it is just about contraception, then there are a range of good alternatives, all down to the woman though, and some women can't tolerate the pill, or iuds or...in which case, its the condom or take the risk with rhythm.
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always without
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I am married and don't have to be bothered with them.
As a single girl it was a must....
As a single girl it was a must....