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That sounds like it would work if you make sure and talk about it. What guidelines did you talk about? No making out? No oral? Did you get a dp?
There are two types of group sex that I've been involved in - one is the group of young men and women, in college, sitting in someone's room, probably dancing and drinking too much - someone starts a game, like strip beerpong, or strip poker or strip bridge or really x-rated truth or dare -- basically anything to get someone's clothes off. Drinking continues, maybe pairing off and serious making out starts, then other people start joining the couples. This happened to me - we were playing bridge, lots of beer, my bf and I lost and I was topless in my thong. We went off and weere making out - I had his cock in my hand stroking it on the couch. Someone tapped my shoulder - I looked up and saw two other guy friends standing there, cocks "staring" straight at me. I had fantasized about these guys since I met them. I reached over and grabbed each one, smiling. Things got steamy, juicy and sexy from there. There were 3 other girls and 3 guys hanging out with us - over a few hours of drinking and partying and dancing - I think I had every one of those cocks in my mouth and pussy - they didn't all cum in me, but just came in for a visit during the fun. The other girls had the same experience.
Next morning - very interesting, looking at each other. I enjoyed the evening - what we did certainly wasn't cheating , but it was mind-expanding. I'm still friends with all the guys - 3 of them have never been back inside me, but the others and I have had flings where the sex is real and fun. Same with the girls -- no one was forced to do anything and no one got really hurt, other than maybe our opinions of ourselves dropped for a while - I never thought that I'd go in for that kind of mindless sex and drinking, but the fact that it was mindless made it almost OK.
The other group is the repeated threesome. You can be part of the couple, the outsider, or one of the three loners who are "getting together". The couple and the outsider is the most common, and I have been in those threesome, I have been the girlfriend in the threesome, and also the girl invited in to participate. Not going into the details, but they are really fun, with the caveat that everyone - EVERYONE - has to trust everyone else. There is so much of a chance for jealousy to rip the groups apart, and for the loner to rip the couple apart. You want these groups to function as friends and associates during normal day to day stuff, as well as to be a working and fun threesome when the clothes hit the floor. The wife or gf in the couple has to trust me when she sees me "interacting" with he husband or bf's dick, just as much as I have to trust the husband or bf doesn't pay too much attention to me while wife or gf looks on, wondering. It works well if people are very good friends ahead of time.
But - TRUST and friendship are important.
David has watched me with other guys a lot more than I've watched him with other girls, but we're both cool with it. It was his idea to share me with other guys, so he had no jealousy about it. He got off on it. By the time I got to see him with another girl, I'd been with so many guys, I could hardly be jealous of sharing him with another girl. We both realized our relationship was strong enough not to be threatened by other lovers.
Looking over some of the answers to this and other questions is a real turn-on for me, and as to this question, its put me in the mood to contact the other two people in my favorite threesome.
But here is another thought - this happened with a boyfriend ( pretty serious, early in freshman year in college), me and a girl that we were talking to at a club in Boston that first night - I though she was just some really nice "stranger" that we met and hit it off with. We went back to my room for drinks after last call, and ended up in a very steamy threesome after drinking probably too much. But, we all had so much fun, we got together several times for more of the same, and even went away for a camping weekend.
It turns out, however, that my boyfriend actually knew her and recognized her in the club that night, and convinced her to act like they were not acquainted. I still don't know if he had arranged to be there at the same time as she was, but it was really a classic stalking situation - she had been his girlfriend - very briefly - in high school, and he had fantasized about being with two girls (he told me this a lot even before this 3some happened, and I was not against it).
I actually liked her - she was a great playmate - but I felt totally betrayed by my bf. If he had only been honest right at the beginning, I would have had no problem inviting her into our bed - but the fact that he felt the need to lie and hide the truth - I ended the relationship.
Bottom line - honesty, trust and no jealousy are what make for good and fun 3somes. But they can so easily be like playing with lit fused dynamite ....
I would add (I’ve only read the last several posts, so this may have been covered elsewhere) that aftercare is incredibly important. I had long fantasized about threesomes with another man. It took lots of years of exploring the fantasy before we defy to give it a go. I wanted it to JUST be sex. The idea that my wife (we play together) would have another man in her bed was a huge turn on. The idea that she would have another man in her heart was crushing.
So we chose a very non-threatening guy for our first go. Met him at a munch (fetlife) on one occasion and just chatted. Hung out together another night with some handsy exploration but no sex. Then finally did the deed on our third encounter. It was amazing. We talked about it for days.
But it definitely set me on edge. I needed a little more attention, a few more “I love yous” and touches than normal for a couple of days.
But the jealousy, in whatever dosage you can tolerate, is part of the pleasure. In my case, we’ve been married for a long time. Long enough that I hadn’t felt jealousy in decades. That ache pulled me closer, clarified my vision, reminded me just how sexy she is.
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