In most erotic stories, strap ons are linked with the themes of dominance and submission, and i think it may even be realistic.
However, i think there are some of us who enjoy receiving a small toy sometimes, essentially because we do enjoy some form of penetration while getting intimate with our lovers, in this case the toy substitutes a finger. Also, it leaves our lovers' hands free to fondle us. I wonder why it has rarely been reflected in erotic stories.
Do very few women like the strap on for the same reason as me?
I'm the same .. I don't always like or want penetration but when i do i like my partner to wear one just a plain soft plastic one not a substitute cock
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I like taking a strap on both for the feeling of being dominated, but also because I crave my vagina being satiated. I do not like "imitation cocks", preferring the strap on to just have a large cylindrical toy. Even masturbating I like to have a Pyrex dildo inside me.
My girlfriend and I used to use strappies on each other because she had given up guys, but still enjoyed the penetration. I prefer using a Feeldoe because the straps on strappies are clumsy and feel weird. The girl I'm with now is like me, and prefers oral and tribbing, so I haven't used a strappy in over 2 years. I don't really miss them at all.
I enjoy my girlfriend using one ,it leaves her hands free while she penetrates me and vice ersa