Primal I know how you feel man. I live in SoCal the porn capital of teh world. I have had school mates that got into the porn business. And all of them are "Bigger is better" I am a lil over 5 inches, not to thin, and uncut (they didn't cut much in Mexico 30 years ago). And in HS I would shy away from the girls that flirted with me because I thought my size would not satisfy them, especially from the black chicks. I always thought they are used to banging those huge black cocks they are not gonna feel me. But I had a "fuck buddy" tell me once that size is irrelevant when it comes to making sweet sensual sex/love. She told me that going down, using your fingers, finding her sweet zones and all that mattered more than the size. Now I don't feel that bad as much as before I actually get complemented on how "cute" my uncut penis looks. Those are my 2 cents anyway.
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I have certainly tested my share of sizes and the small can give a woman every pleasure she can imagine and I have been with really big boys who were failures. The reverse is true also. It seems to me that the operator is much more of an issue than strictly size. Things such as desire to please, attitude, enthusisam and that little thing call staying power. I used to see a man who was certainly below average in size, but a 10 in performance. Alas he married and that broad will not share!
Artistic Tart
A big dick isn't necessary to be a good fuck- don't let anybody tell you different, unless- like you say- the girl is a real size queen, but it seems to me that's a fetish just like any other, not a requirement for women.
I like them big and thick, sure. But talk to any guy who truly has a huge cock, and if he has some experience with women and is honest, he will tell you about the women who couldn't have sex with him comfortably, or maybe even at all. Guys really seem to like to be all the way up inside of us, must be something primal, and guys with big long ones usually can't do that.
Extra thickness is best for me- I'll take that over extra length any day, though a longer one has its advantages too, mostly that he doesn't slip out as easily- besides that general feeling of being 'filled up', which is hard to explain but very real.
So, lets say you're 5" and below-average thickness- is that a deal breaker? Hell no. Would I like two more inches long and another inch and a half around? Hell yes, but the owner of the cock has a whole lot to do with how much I enjoy that cock and how my body responds to it.
I like them big and thick, sure. But talk to any guy who truly has a huge cock, and if he has some experience with women and is honest, he will tell you about the women who couldn't have sex with him comfortably, or maybe even at all. Guys really seem to like to be all the way up inside of us, must be something primal, and guys with big long ones usually can't do that.
Extra thickness is best for me- I'll take that over extra length any day, though a longer one has its advantages too, mostly that he doesn't slip out as easily- besides that general feeling of being 'filled up', which is hard to explain but very real.
So, lets say you're 5" and below-average thickness- is that a deal breaker? Hell no. Would I like two more inches long and another inch and a half around? Hell yes, but the owner of the cock has a whole lot to do with how much I enjoy that cock and how my body responds to it.
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My current lover is just under five inches, and his thickness is proportionate to his size, and he practically makes me shred the sheets or his back when we have sex. I've also had large guys, around eight or so, and was kind of bored, honestly.
It's the mind behind the body behind the penis that does it for me.
It's the mind behind the body behind the penis that does it for me.
Artistic Tart
Quote by HunterNoel
Size should never matter to a girl. i know alot of people that judge on just this and its messed up. if the guy knows what he is doing or if the people are in love something like this shouldnt matter
"should" doesn't belong here. It's not a judgement on guys with small dicks, its all about what different girls prefer, and we really don't have a choice on those things, any more than you can make yourself like overweight guys when you naturally prefer guys with slimmer builds.
Also- anything that effects how sex feels DOES matter, and size definitely affects how sex feels.
Alpha Blonde
There is such a thing as being too small, just like there is such a thing as being too big... (i've had both).
Ideally he'd have one where I could feel it, but not so big that I am super sore the next day.
The whole fixation on anaconda sized dicks is really overblown. There is only so much space before it ends up slamming against our cervix. On one hand, the idea of it is kinda kinky... on the other hand, it makes certain positions impossible without gritting your teeth and knowing you will be sore afterwards.
And yes, I agree with LadyX... the person attached to the penis is more important than anything else.
Ideally he'd have one where I could feel it, but not so big that I am super sore the next day.
The whole fixation on anaconda sized dicks is really overblown. There is only so much space before it ends up slamming against our cervix. On one hand, the idea of it is kinda kinky... on the other hand, it makes certain positions impossible without gritting your teeth and knowing you will be sore afterwards.
And yes, I agree with LadyX... the person attached to the penis is more important than anything else.
Active Ink Slinger
Hmmmm... I've found that the journey is often far more arousing than the destination.. by the time you get to full penetration you should have cum at least 4 times already and the cock should merely be the final chapter of a well read book... there are two things far more important than the size of a man's cock... passion... and imagination... my two favorite words...
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Quote by BigRod
Hmmmm... I've found that the journey is often far more arousing than the destination.. by the time you get to full penetration you should have cum at least 4 times already and the cock should merely be the final chapter of a well read book... there are two things far more important than the size of a man's cock... passion... and imagination... my two favorite words...
Bravo couldn't have said it better myself! Actually a very normal size of 6" to 7" has always been my fav but it's the man that's behind it that counts.
Bunny12
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
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Hmmmm... I've found that the journey is often far more arousing than the destination.. by the time you get to full penetration you should have cum at least 4 times already and the cock should merely be the final chapter of a well read book... there are two things far more important than the size of a man's cock... passion... and imagination... my two favorite words...
The man of my dreams is a man that can please me. no matter the size at all or even if his penis works correctly or not. as long as he loves me and keeps me loved. and shows me sensuality and a shows me he loves me through his passion. Then I am the most lucky woman in the world if I can find this man.
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Quote by Ling-Li
Size matters to a certain extent. I've had anywhere from 3 to 14 inches. But for me, the width is much, MUCH more important than length.
And yes, the motion of the ocean matters... but to paraphrase Jeff Foxworthy... "It takes a hell of a long time to get to England in a rowboat."
Ling
My question, could u take all 14" inside you? I often wonder how deep a vigina is actually capable of stretching?
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I too am average, but my wife seems to like it just fine, I asked her one time what she would do if I had a TEN INCH penis, one time she said run for the hills, the other time she said worship it. Shrug 
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Advanced Wordsmith
Personally, size doesn't matter, I'd take grith over length anyday. And for me its not about the skill its about the feeling of being controlled. Vanilla sex, whether its with a 4 inch cock or a 10 inch wouldn't get me off either way.
Advanced Wordsmith
yea, i fully agree with forbiddeneden that the girth of the tool is more important than its length....and it must be strong enough to hold on....
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Would we all like at some time to be hung like a porn star, yes. But it depends on the woman your with at the time. I'm 7" in length but thick, and at times have been to big just to jump right in. What I have I've never gotten a complant on.