I've been sexually active for about 4 years and have only been with 5 different men. All of their cocks have ranged between at least 7 to 10 inches so no I can't say I've ever been disappointed in the size department lol. But for me I think anything below 5 1/2 inches is kind of on the impesh side of things. And if I ever encountered a man with your penis size I couldn't say I'd be happy about it, but I wouldn't want to be rude about it. Unless he were into that kind of thing. But I definitly wouldn't be calling him back.
I personally have only been with men that were 6-8 inches...3-4 inches seems to be quite small, maybe unable to hit the spot in most women...but with that said, there are plenty of other ways to please a woman and you are probably gifted in those areas...if not...thats what toys are for!
Honestly I don't think he is looking for positive responses. I think he is looking for negative ones. I get the feeling he is into "humiliation". I have seen this far too often on chat networks.
what would you do if pulling down a man pants you find he has a penis the same size as me?
1) Apologize and go and find my boyfriend.
2) Apologize, go downstairs and turn the central heating on.