Ok....I love to lick/finger/toy wife to orgasm before I enter her. She complains sometimes that she just wants me to "climb on". But she very rarely has a vaginal orgasm so that drives me to want her to have hers first. Am I wrong in always going down on her even though she says she just wants it "vanilla" sometimes?
If I just want sex to be over and done with, I make my other half have vaginal sex with me. Wait to he orgasms and then I finish myself off.
Only rarely has he made me orgasm from his touch. I rather touch myself to bring myself to orgasm.
It is win - win.
Sounds like he doesn't know how to get you "there". I can always get wife off, especially when I use big dildo in her while nibbling her clit.....but it's all good.
I follow the example of Australian golfing legend Greg 'The Shark' Norman who is rich, good looking and always comes second.
I've had it first and last as well as finish myself off. I find that I like it when I can cum at the same time as my partner.
Bunker Love
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I like to get her off first, either with my penis, or fingers and tongue, and then move on. If we both cum during intercourse, then awesome!