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Quote by Dani


What it mostly boils down to is fetishism by way of perceived exoticism.


This is why sayings like "once you go black" make me uncomfortable. It's the creation of a black/white binary that is so unnecessary in sex. I go back to the partners who are sexy, adventurous lovers regardless of other considerations.
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Viewpoint from a black woman:

It's all just a big old myth. I don't have sex with color, it means nothing to me. It's the guy inside the skin that matters. I've been with black guys and I've been with white guys, probably roughly equally. Married a white guy. The black guys I've been with haven't been any bigger than the white guys and quite frankly, I've found that the white guys I was with were all far more attentive and generous in bed than the black guys. But that's just my experience.
(I'm sure there are black guys who are legitimately talented in bed aside from the perceived, "he's black so he must have a big cock and can fuck like nobody's business." And having a big cock doesn't mean you know how to use it!)

Like it's been said, I think a lot of it is the exoticism/ nature of it that sparks such sentiments about black guys.
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I would not know... but I think it is the person you are with that creates the excitement of the moment.... squirting is required tho, lol
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Only have sucked one black guy, he was large, thick and musky smelling. It was at a friend's birthday party and the black guy was the stripper. I liked it, but large thick white cock is just as good imo! ;)
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Yes I think its true. I have been with black men for 2 years and when I do fuck white guys so much is missing . Im just attracted to black men .
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Can I turn this question around as my present partner/lover is afro/native american.We don't have a lot of time together as she spends most of her year on the other side of the pond but I'm sure I noticed a difference in the sex.Now don't ask me to explain what it was because I'm a one woman man and it's been a while.Have I made myself clear?
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Quote by Dee_1966
I've been with quite a few black men, I think what turns me on the most is that it still not very accepted in today's society.


Not blaming you for this of course, but isn't that just sad? It's 2015!


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Not blaming you for this of course, but isn't that just sad? It's 2015!

Who gives a fuck, who you get with?
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Quote by Castle4coochie

Who gives a fuck, who you get with?


unfortunately, the majority of anyone who finds out. no matter what anyone says, racism is far from being repressed
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I wouldnt really know,Ive never been with a black man before.My girlfriend is black but I dont look at her as being any different than me,we are both women who happen to be in a loving relationship .The fact that she is Black and I'm white is immateria
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Skin color has nothing to do with that saying. I've had black guys that didn't know what they were doing, and I've had guys of other races that did and vice versa. I just happen to be with a black guy as I am a black woman and our relationship is just like anyone else's: one filled with love and mutual respect for one another.

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I consider myself a fence jumper. I've jumped the fence a few times, and I can say that I've enjoyed it enough to jump it again.
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The person behind the skin color is more important than the color is.
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Please excuse my ignorance, but this is such a difficult concept for me. I only ever think of having sex with somebody I actually like, regardless of their skin tone, or shape, or physical being.

If I like the person, and they make me horny, and they don't run away screaming, I'd happily go for it. I don't understand how a man's willy skin being a different colour to my pussy skin, or someone else's willy skin, makes any difference. If it's about size, whilst certain ethnic groups might be proven to have an average size different to other ethnic groups, they still have all sorts of sizes depending on the individuals within those groups.

I just don't get it. Is it a cultural thing? But which culture with what habits and which country, and...

I just don't understand.



^^^What she says!

I had a couple of black boyfriends during my teenage years, and a Sikh boyfriend, and more recently had a Hindu boyfriend and there really is no physical difference apart from the love handles looking less flabby when the skin isn't pale.

I am with a person, not a cock with a person attached.
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I don't think skin color factors much into sexual performance, although some women might just find certain races more attractive. I love dark skin on a man, for example, and that factors into why I've slept with more black men than white men
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Not true in my case. Once You Go Black... That saying is about the size of a black man's cock. Which doesn't matter to me anyway if you don't know how to use it.
And furthermore, I've had well endowed white guys...
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Ive gone black and went back...had both white and black men...once the lights are out i find no difference if they know what they are doing
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As a black woman I know that some white men are spoiled after they've been with me enjoying my charms but I'm sure they'll go get a white girl if I'm not around so I'd have to say that is false,that's just my opinion
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Quote by georgiagirl22
Only have sucked one black guy, he was large, thick and musky smelling. It was at a friend's birthday party and the black guy was the stripper. I liked it, but large thick white cock is just as good imo! ;)


Good choice of words.. Large thick cock ;)
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Only once for me with a black guy. It was nothing special. Put me down as urban legend. There is a lot that goes into making a good lover. No matter the race. My husband is still my favorite lover. He knows me and what makes me tick. All my buttons and parameters. I've been with a younger man that had unbelievable stamina and an older guy that displayed incredible technique. They were both fun but you can't beat the love connection.

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having grown up in an integrated area, I was attracted to black girls from an early age...one of my first sexual experiences was with an adorable black girl and we loved the contrast of our skin colors. I don't know about "never going back", but I do love "going black".
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Variety is the spice of life. Interracial is very common in my social circles.
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i have not yet had a black cock. i'd really like to at some point, there just aren't many around here. i think i've had every other variety, though....
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i like this one better - i go down on brown. smile

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I've messed with my share of black guys, white guys, hispanics, etc. It doesn't really matter to me very much. I guess each can have its own thing, but no I didn't feel like once I was with a black guy that's all I wanted. So in my case it's a myth. :P
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I've messed with my share of black guys, white guys, hispanics, etc. It doesn't really matter to me very much. I guess each can have its own thing, but no I didn't feel like once I was with a black guy that's all I wanted. So in my case it's a myth. :P
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I am a black woman and I must say the saying isn't true. Don't get me wrong....I love black men, everything about them, but I love MEN as a whole. Everything about them! So it doesn't really matter what the color is. Why limit yourself. You could be missing out on the best time of your life limiting to one specific "color". Men are going to be men no matter what the color.
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I had sex with two different black guys. One was while in high school and we dated for several months. It was good, no doubt but it wasn't his skin color. The other black man I did was in college. Had a good sized cock but did not know how to use it.
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After my first experience with a black guy, a black guy has always been my first choice.