I just read through a question here on the "Ask the Gals" forum "Older or Younger" and was intrigued. I've noticed that there are different opinions but that people are really responding to two different questions.
The first one is about a "relationship" with an older partner and
The second is about a "sexual relationship" with an older partner. I'm curious about both questions.
…and since I am asking, I'll just add my quick two cents if that's ok. I was always attracted to older women when I was in my 20's & 30's. I'm still attracted to women of my own age and older. Ok, so let's call that Oedipus and yes, I always did find it a bit dirty and sexually exciting being with an older woman. It's a bit taboo, and a bit like being with anther man's wife or GF. I think that there's a certain excitement in the deviousness of it. It's taboo: We've been taught that it's not 'right' but it's been happening since before the Greeks talked about it. LOL.
Of late, I've been hit up here on Lush by some very attractive younger ladies who fantasize about an older man. I call it the "Electra' thing. At first, I was a bit taken aback but I think it relates to the taboo fantasy.
Ok, So now, saying all of that here's my question:
Is being with an older partner SEXUALLY exciting because of the taboo part or because an older lover is slower and more aware of your needs? I guess that's a two part question. I wonder how much one part contributes to the excitement of the other.
For now, I'm not denigrating the issue of a relationship merely asking about the sexual excitement part since the other thread seems to discuss the 'relationship' aspects in more detail.
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