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Older or younger?
Rookie Scribe
I love mature woman...
Active Ink Slinger
Older men are so sexy.
Active Ink Slinger
Most defiantly older 
Alpha Blonde
I prefer guys somewhat close to my own age - ideally somewhere within a 5 year age-bracket (older or in rare cases younger can work too). Nothing more than a 10 year age difference. Yes, I have tried the 'older guy' thing once, and it wasn't my thing.
Old men with 'ageist' attitudes who only prey on significantly younger girls totally creep me out. If they claim 'age is just a number' then why don't they ever consider dating someone their own age? There's nothing that sobers me up faster in a bar then the approach of the "trying desperately to be cool enough to date you" greying daddy/grandpa who thinks his cash will sway you into forgetting he's twice your age. Blech... lol
Old men with 'ageist' attitudes who only prey on significantly younger girls totally creep me out. If they claim 'age is just a number' then why don't they ever consider dating someone their own age? There's nothing that sobers me up faster in a bar then the approach of the "trying desperately to be cool enough to date you" greying daddy/grandpa who thinks his cash will sway you into forgetting he's twice your age. Blech... lol
Active Ink Slinger
I'm more interested in whether or not there's a connection with someone than their age, they might be a couple of years younger, 15+ years older, or somewhere in between.
Active Ink Slinger
I love a young, eager lover, but hubby is sixty & still would/could have sex four or five times a day if I could handle it. I definitely have to have a connection (or chemistry) with someone--if that's there, it's all good. But I love everything about my hubby, from the grey in his beard to the way we never run out of things to talk about and teach each other.
I never saw myself marrying someone twenty years older, but if I'd turned him down when he first asked me to lunch, I never would have met the man who is clearly my soul mate. Only down side is, the "growing old together" part.
I never saw myself marrying someone twenty years older, but if I'd turned him down when he first asked me to lunch, I never would have met the man who is clearly my soul mate. Only down side is, the "growing old together" part.
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I'm a loner, Dottie. A Rebel...
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Rookie Scribe
Older men definitely. Somehow feel weird about doing it with a much younger guy. My husband was 14+ years my age and we had a wonderful and very very sexy physical relationship. There is a difference between older and lecher...
Active Ink Slinger
why is it that society looks at men that have younger lovers as dirty old men but if a women is with a younger guy its ok ? i guess its like when a guy screws a lot of gals hes considered a stud and if a gal fucks alot of guys people consider her a whore . ( not my opinion ) society in general . do you agree ???
Alpha Blonde
Quote by tampmark122
why is it that society looks at men that have younger lovers as dirty old men but if a women is with a younger guy its ok ? i guess its like when a guy screws a lot of gals hes considered a stud and if a gal fucks alot of guys people consider her a whore . ( not my opinion ) society in general . do you agree ???
I don't think so... I'd look at a 40+ year old woman who was with a 20 year old guy with a raised eyebrow too. In fact, I think the older woman with the much younger guy would end up far more judged than the older man with the younger girl (which is far more accepted in general).
There are exceptions to everything of course, but I think it's more like - if when you were of legal drinking age and partying in the clubs at the same time your future significant other was in diapers and eating pablum... it just seems kind of creepy.
Rookie Scribe
I like both but I've got a major thing for some older men that I find attractive of course. Not sure what it is just knowing they are a lot older than me turns me on sooooo bad.
Always dated younger men,not intentionally just worked out that way.Someone older than me would be alright as they would probably treat a woman with a bit more respect.
Rookie Scribe
Why limit.......as long as you having fun....;)
Active Ink Slinger
older... though a few years below is ok....
Active Ink Slinger
as long as theres love does it matter
Active Ink Slinger
lol.. I can't wait til Friday night when I get to go out to the bar in my beige mini-van with a lift gate and have my male nurse help me into my walker so I can go in and pick up on Dancing_Doll..
Active Ink Slinger
I've always gone for older by at least 5 years... I think it's just been that most of my friends are that much older so who they socialise with are around the same age.
Active Ink Slinger
I will never date anyone younger than myself, I've always been an old soul and often find that I relate more with people that are older than me. In retrospect on my serious relationships, I date 2-7 years older than me. As far as sex goes, I'm more open minded when it comes to that arena.
Rookie Scribe
when it comes to girl/women i love any age. i prefer very dominate girls/women but i just love them all. hehe Has for guys, i love older guys. i am almost 32 and right now i have a friend with benefits/fuck buddy guy that is 56 and let me tell you, what he does with his tongue is simply amazing. lol
Rookie Scribe
I love older women !!!!