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Older men or younger men?

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Luv older men, they make the better lovers.
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in a more recent foray into the world of partners and being graced with
being sexual some comments per our being together:
this is from a 62 year old women per me being 60..
she was shocked when after making love for our first 5 minutes
of being together, that I just didn't roll over and settle down,
needless to say ONCE she discovered this and will no viagra in the mix
she realized that she would have to have some lubrication..

Having been party to some of the teachings of OM (orgasmic meditation)
I removed the tension by very slowly touching her clitoral area, slight massage
from time to time and when she was moaning and starting to change her
breathing we.....

another phrase I liked hearing from her "Damn good lovin'"

we had toys, vibrators, the many varied techniques of cunnilingus
and she always had to have a suck on my wet precum head as it
tasted sweet to her.... but that only lasted as long as she could wait
before she needed my 2.5 to 3 inch girth inside of her...

stamina was funny because we rarely had physical relations with full
on sexual happenings for less than 2 - 5 hours.... she was ecstatic
because THAT was her level of desire and need to be fulfilled... it all
worked...

never, say never as many times, we just need to explore and experience it
and older, is definitely the better match for me as the younger stuff has a lot
less stamina for the long haul... think about who has had more time to exercise
their manly and womanly sexual feelings and muscles... :-)
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I like both.
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Well up till now all my men have been older. I wrote about Steve of course. But lately I've been having this fantasy about taking a boy's virginity hehe . It's part of my "I'm no Angel" phase. I mean I think I should take at least one boy's virginity right? Anyways a recent little obsession of mine haha. I need to seduce one of my friend's little seventeen year old brothers haha.DHv4VMPmFCy4EBAS
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Old older isn't my thing...
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Younger ones. They can go as many times as you need them.
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Older, but only slightly.

I've found that men in my age group (18-21) are still getting their lives together and aren't the most mature bunch.
But astoundingly, I also found out through a few not-so-smart decisions on my part that MUCH older men (40+) who chase women in my age group tend to have emotional problems and control issues coupled with the lack of maturity and not having their lives very put-together as their younger counterparts. I'm aware that not all older men are this way, but that has been my experience thus far and I'm not risking that kind of instance again.

Therefore, the 22-26 age group seems optimal for me at this point in my life. My wonderful boyfriend is 5 and a half years older than I am, and I couldn't possibly be happier!
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To me, older or younger isn't something that counts. I have run into and experienced some older men who act like children, and younger men who act far beyond their years. Respect and compassion are really some of the key elements. A younger man has some benefits that older men do not (stamina, volume, eagerness) and older men have some benefits that younger men do not (experience, understanding, size) - just to give a few examples, those are not solid standards, just examples.
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In my limited experience, the younger ones are more energetic, and can go at it multiple times. But the older ones, they know all the tricks, and a single romp can last for quite some time.
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Usually I prefer older men. But maturity level and fun factors are far more important than actual age.
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Older men know what they want.. the word "love" to younger men has NO meaning.
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I have to say my tastes normally lean toward older men. I tend to feel safer and more secure with them. In general, their conversations are more cerebral and engaging as well. That isn't to say that I don't like men that are a few years younger just not decades younger.
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i have to say, as a 47yo man, many of you are giving me hope! lol
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Older but not ancient
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Quote by ImNoAngel
To me, older or younger isn't something that counts. I have run into and experienced some older men who act like children, and younger men who act far beyond their years. Respect and compassion are really some of the key elements. A younger man has some benefits that older men do not (stamina, volume, eagerness) and older men have some benefits that younger men do not (experience, understanding, size) - just to give a few examples, those are not solid standards, just examples.


I don't know that it is quite this simple. If you are speaking just in broad general terms and deliberately lumping all older and all younger men together into two piles, then this works as a roughly true comparison.

But the world is made up of individual men. I'll assert that there are individual men in the 50s who can out-last, out-cum, and out-crave a large percentage of the younger male population while still possessing experience, self-control, maturity, and a more developed masculine certainty and fire. I feel very certain that I am a much better version of me than my younger self, and that is especially true when it comes to sex, as well as romance and loving a woman.
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I'm attracted to older men but that doesn't rule out younger men it's just that older seem to really do it for me
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Both ,but preferably Black
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They both have benefits. Have found that older men who have been around with lots of women are much more experienced and uninhibited. Will generally do anything for you and can stretch your boundaries using their experience. Usually have more patience and invest the time to give me multiple orgasms. Young guys are good if I want lots of frantic action or a quickie. They are always ready; five second erections and ready to go again 20 minutes after unloading. The reload time is a big difference, but older guys are much more content to hold off, letting me have the fun until they are ready for a finish. Have learnt from older men; never learnt anything from young guys.
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Both. Variety is good. We have a private swing group. The youngest guy is 22 and his wife is 23. Our oldest is in mid 60s. A while back I had a 76 year old lover at a swing club. He could still get a good erection and had a nice cock. He also knew how to be a great lover.

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Both ,but preferably Black


Same
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Older, they know what they want. And know how to treat me.
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I just love men, older or younger.

Older men are patient and give me just what I need. If I did not know better I would think they had been down this road a few times before. The old man is much more complex, you know wife, family and career. In addition, you most likely are not the only one he is doing.

Now younger guys may not be as skilled and lack the experience. However, a few clients have brought their young sons to me to learn the world of sex. That can be mind blowing because they will do just anything you want.

Young guys, in general, are great because they are always in the mood for sex. None of that I am busy at work, or it my daughter's graduation. They are ready to go again in just minutes. I guess I should say they are ready just about like I am.

Maybe a girl like me needs an older guy and a couple of young ones also.
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If he blows my mind, I probably wouldn't care.
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I have always preferred younger men.
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Well I would have to say that if your young at heart or mature for your age then anything is possible smile
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Older because younger guys are dweebs and their lack of conversation makes me sick...
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Older and fit.

I'm convinced, and I'm speaking for myself as well, that people don't know how to have good sex until they're, more or less, 30. Then we only get better and better.

Younger men and women are generally just figuring out what they want, how they want it, or who they want to give it to.
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Well I have to say older and without sounding weird and all but preferably a good bit older .. hehehe
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Well I have to say older and without sounding weird and all but preferably a good bit older .. hehehe


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