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OK, corollary question, how do you use body language or your signals to say come fuck me?
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Active Ink Slinger
Be quiet and respectful but engaged directly in the interest and then let her come to you. Because you know, if it's just a fuck, the woman usually chooses.
Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
Alpha Blonde
When at a bar or club, a couple of direct glances and maintained eye-contact. They should last a few seconds each time, but it has to be multiple occasions of eye contact. Random eye contact means nothing and has always been a pet peeve of mine in a bar, because if I'm looking around or walking by, unless I'm making an effort to keep my eyes glued to the floor, I'm probably going to have quick eye contact with guys that are staring or trying to get attention. It doesn't mean anything - please don't interpret this as a signal... lol.. the accidental eye-contact being mistaken for a signal drives me nuts. When it's intentional, it should be pretty obvious - we will continue looking back at you.
The easiest way to tell if a girl is interested when you're talking to her though is in the eyes. Animated, lively, flirty or half-lidded, seductive eyes show sexual interest. To me this is the most obvious signal. When I'm talking to someone I'm attracted to versus a random person I'm not, there's a marked difference in my facial expressions and eyes. I think this is the same for most women.
Women tend to stand in a way that flatters their bodies when they're talking to someone they're interested in. It can be subtle, but the shoulders pull back, the back arches and the booty pops. Yes, there might be some hair-touching/rearranging involved as well. We're going to be sure to show off our best assets if we're talking to someone we're into.
As for "when it's time to fuck"... I'll usually just make a move to initiate sex or say something dirty. If we're already on a physical level, I don't really go for the subtle signals hoping he'll clue in that I want to have sex. I'll just go for it, and assume he will too whenever he wants to get things going.
The easiest way to tell if a girl is interested when you're talking to her though is in the eyes. Animated, lively, flirty or half-lidded, seductive eyes show sexual interest. To me this is the most obvious signal. When I'm talking to someone I'm attracted to versus a random person I'm not, there's a marked difference in my facial expressions and eyes. I think this is the same for most women.
Women tend to stand in a way that flatters their bodies when they're talking to someone they're interested in. It can be subtle, but the shoulders pull back, the back arches and the booty pops. Yes, there might be some hair-touching/rearranging involved as well. We're going to be sure to show off our best assets if we're talking to someone we're into.
As for "when it's time to fuck"... I'll usually just make a move to initiate sex or say something dirty. If we're already on a physical level, I don't really go for the subtle signals hoping he'll clue in that I want to have sex. I'll just go for it, and assume he will too whenever he wants to get things going.
Active Ink Slinger
Everything Doll said plus you have to add in the subtle touches on your arm as we talk and the smile that lingers longer than normal.
I'm the touchy feely kind of girl. If I like you I find it hard to keep my hands from touching you, you know...the fingertips on your arm, leaning in close to hear what you've got to say. Sometimes I dont even know that I'm doing it.
Can get a girl into all kinds of trouble
I'm the touchy feely kind of girl. If I like you I find it hard to keep my hands from touching you, you know...the fingertips on your arm, leaning in close to hear what you've got to say. Sometimes I dont even know that I'm doing it.
Can get a girl into all kinds of trouble
The Linebacker
I agree with what Doll says. If a woman is interested in the guy she will keep looking at him and it is a very distinctive look, seductive eyes, a very slight smile. If she's sitting look for the leg movement. Crossed legs and swinging one foot, usually sits more at ease, opening herself up to you. Then there is always that walk, the extra swivel to the hips. looking back over her shoulder at you, swinging the hair. Also twirling the hair with one finger. Of course about that time, my wife has noticed and lets it known for sure that I am her property! Having to defend her turf, so to speak, gets my wife all worked up and horny. I love that part!
Active Ink Slinger
First my eyes will invite, then glance away (because I'm not trying to stare you down), then come right back. If they don't come right back and lock on yours, then it's a no go. Second, if I am that interested I will touch you, doesn't matter where, (hand, arm, etc.) and I will leave my hand on you. That's pretty much an invite for you to touch back, and if I don't reject that touch you are on the way to homebase baby.
btw, that sounds so simple, but here is a tip, if you have had too much to drink you will mess up those signals every time. Besides never getting them from me in the first place.
btw, that sounds so simple, but here is a tip, if you have had too much to drink you will mess up those signals every time. Besides never getting them from me in the first place.
If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright
I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
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Women tend to stand in a way that flatters their bodies when they're talking to someone they're interested in. It can be subtle, but the shoulders pull back, the back arches and the booty pops. Yes, there might be some hair-touching/rearranging involved as well. We're going to be sure to show off our best assets if we're talking to someone we're into.[\quote]
I agree with DD.
If sitting down I might also flash a bit of inner thigh or panty when I know a guy is looking, purposefully making it look like an innocent act. It's just flirting, not a signal to say come fuck me. Definitely a come on but suble enough to stir him into action if he's interested in me.
Active Ink Slinger
I hold up five hundred dollar bills.
Active Ink Slinger
Like DD says a lot is in the eyes and repeated deep eye contact. However if I'm really horny then I will start becoming "touchy feely" and lightly touch his arms or his chest while flirting with him. A guy obviously can tell if you are flirting with them, however, younger guys especially may need some more direct signals if you really want sex since they tend to be more uncertain and hesitant usually. Then you may take them by the hand and directly let them know it's "time to go home" (i.e. let's get out of here and get crazy hehe 
). Now I am more experienced and can attract guys on my own. Last year I would let my best friend Jenny do the initial contact and then bring the guy over to our group so I could talk to him. Guys probably don't realize this, but sometimes we girls work in packs like wolves haha (yes guys, you are the prey!! "Let the sex hunger games begin!!). Anyways, flirting is great fun, great for a girl's ego and nothing gets your hormones pumping like an amazing night of flirting and teasing.
). Now I am more experienced and can attract guys on my own. Last year I would let my best friend Jenny do the initial contact and then bring the guy over to our group so I could talk to him. Guys probably don't realize this, but sometimes we girls work in packs like wolves haha (yes guys, you are the prey!! "Let the sex hunger games begin!!). Anyways, flirting is great fun, great for a girl's ego and nothing gets your hormones pumping like an amazing night of flirting and teasing. 
Advanced Wordsmith
if you cant tell by the look in my eyes, then you don't need to have me anyway!
Active Ink Slinger
I had a gf who's green eyes positivley sparkled when she saw a man she was interested in! It was amazing to see and when the lights went out for me, i knew it was time to set her free! haha!
Another lover used her lips as a strong signal, she said, ''your coming home with me''. for some, being blunt about what they want cuts thro the mating game.Kj5MOGK4Rdw9zAmV
Another lover used her lips as a strong signal, she said, ''your coming home with me''. for some, being blunt about what they want cuts thro the mating game.Kj5MOGK4Rdw9zAmV 
Active Ink Slinger
I need no "body language". I just hold my glance an extra 2-3 seconds. They always come to me. Then I decide if I want further interaction, most I don't. To paraphrase Albert Eienstein -- "you may disagree with the laws of nature, but they must be obeyed!". Change the word nature to Tina and then you understand. None can resist, don't even try!
Active Ink Slinger
For me its definitely eye contact. Like DD said, if I am interested it will be several glances with strong eye contact with each one progressively lasting a little longer. And when we are talking, I will usually touch my hair and his/her hand and arm a lot.
I also agree that I hate it when I make a random eye contact and a guy takes that a a sign that I am interested. It is hard to glance into a crowd and not make eye contact with someone!! Really hate that!
I also agree that I hate it when I make a random eye contact and a guy takes that a a sign that I am interested. It is hard to glance into a crowd and not make eye contact with someone!! Really hate that!