Ladies,
When you masturbate is it always a spontneous thing or do you ever plan "date" with yourself? I know sometimes I plan out a whole evening when I have no plans to go out know I am going to be home alone. I may have a nice bath with scented candles burning and a glass of wine and enjoy my body. Or do the same in my bed and read some hot stories and drift off to a blissful orgasm filled place.
Does anyone else ever do this?
yes it is very much me to look for the opportunity to truly please myself
Usually it's a spontaneous thing for me - whenever the mood strikes.... Unless I'm involving someone else (like on phone/cam), then I'll spend time charging up all my toys, getting the lube handy and the ginger carved. haha Oh, and can't forget the champagne or dirty martinis. So yeah, in a way, I guess I do prep ahead of time on occasion.
Yeh for me too it generally is spontaneous however if I'm expecting to cyber with my girl later in the day I might do a little prep to make me feel a little extra sexy like wearing something that feels nice against my skin or wear nice undies etc.
Generally the sexier I feel the better the experience is, but sometimes the mood strikes quickly and I can just end up with my knickers round my ankles and going for it! lol
For me masturbation is spontaneous, if and when i need to, I do it
Mostly spontaneous. But looking forward to a masturbation session for a couple of hours is delicious, too!