I have been taken off some pain meds.....meds i have been on for year.
omg i am feeling amazing. I want my husband all the time.
how do i explain to him.... after never even suggesting any kind of pain....
that I now want him ... need him to be rougher with my nipples even biting....
NO teeth marks
the reason is.... the next day when they are tender I know how they got that way..... and it gets me to the edge every time
Communicate with him..... Encourage him when he plays with your nipples... Let him know how turned on you are... Mine are super sensitive and I love a little pain with my pleasure... Its all about communication.
Encourage him until you get the right level of roughness. But if he accidentally goes too far, accept the blame and don't make him feel bad about it. Reward him for success.
Pretty much what they said, but I'd add that it's important to communicate while the play is happening. Sometimes that can be done through well-placed moans that may or may not be involuntary, but also talk to him. Make it clear that it's something you really want him to do, and explain why just like you did to us. Maybe in more detail. Explain to him how it will reward him.