hey need abit of girl advice here im together with my gf for over a year now but the other night she caught me watching gay porn .. im not ussually into it but was jus seeing what its like im so embarrased and she wont even look at me what should i do ?
Tell her the truth. That's what I would do.
If you were watching it online, just say it was a link that someone sent you and you clicked on it without knowing what it was.
If she caught you jerking off to it, then I'd just address the situation. Ask her if she has any questions or concerns about it and just say that we often get desensitized to mainstream porn and you're just checking out different genres.
Like guys may watch gangbangs, gokkun, cuckold and shock porn like '2 Girls, 1 Cup' out of curiosity. It doesn't necessarily mean that they want to take part in those sex acts themselves. Same with gay porn. Watching it doesn't necessarily mean anything. I'm sure almost every straight guy out there has seen gay porn at some point in his porn-watching lifetime.
Maybe you should have her catch you watching non-gay porn now...
I agree with what everyone else has said. If you cant get by with the "I just clicked on the link someone sent me" or "it just popped up" excuse, then be honest and ask her why she is so offended by it? Tell her it didnt turn you on (unless of course it did) and that it was simply out of curiosity. Has she ever watched girl-girl porn? If she isnt bi and has, then it is the same thing really, isnt it?
Good Luck!!
thanks again