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Name something that you learned about yourself since joining Lush.

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I'm not that bad :P
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But you're such an endearing one (I bet you hate me now).


I've learned that if I choose the right words, I can fool people into forgetting that an author sometimes writes made-up stuff, not always memories of reality.

I've learned enough about my own sexuality and techniques that when I got a chance to try them out, the result was messily delightful.

I've learned that whilst I'm easily enraged about some things (and people), I am actually more accepting and tolerant of other things (and people) than I ever thought possible (and I get very annoyed when others can't do the same).

I've learned what a joy it is to see first-time writers start off on a pretty low level, and climb their hard-working way to the top ranks of Lush's finest. Brilliant!

Oh yes, and for the first time in my life, there are actually some people whose opinions I don't give a toss about. It's honestly very freeing!


I LOVE the DAISY so much... (I LOVE that she NEVER regards her own talent, indeed never mentions it...)

She READ one of MINE once!!! (I asked her and she said okay...) She's THAT cool...

I love her... (WE HARDLY ever talk anymore!!!) Still love her.

xx SF

Fuck it...


https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-poems/the-untimely-death-of-viagra-victor.aspx
I have learned nothing about myself since I joined Lush ..

but I have confirmed all my worst fears!

AWESOME



i learned that I would love to be pegged.
I learned that I can feel sexy and loved bmaking new friends, no need to wait for the old ones that doesn't care for me
It's opened up my eyes to a lot of fantasies that I didn't know I was aroused by. I've also become more open and less judgemental about what turns people on. And I never thought I would be a good writer, but I thin exploring my creativity in chat has strengthened my imagination.
I've learned a few things. 1 I don't have to be shy about letting Ryan know the things I fantasize about. 2- that he is right I am too naive sometimes. 3- that it can be fun for us to have a sexy chat with a complete stranger.
I'm attracted to big aerolas on women. I like the idea of having all my holes filled. Being taken advantage of turns me on
I cannot get tired of erotic stories smile
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
I'm bi-curious and really want to be with another woman.
I am much more open and exploratory (kinkier) then I though I was
This is a really good thread, I have been on here for quite a while and have learned many things about myself. I thought I might be unique in having gleaned so much personal development from this site. One thing, I love a submissive woman.
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Being on lush has allowed me to explore things that I would never have been brave enough to do in real life. What have you discovered since joining?


I've found that writing Erotica is something I'm good at - and I've become passionate (and successful enough) at it to take it seriously as part of my career future. I've gone back to college to pursue a marketing degree.
Like a few others have said, I've learned about a few fetishes and kinks I didn't know I had (I mean, kitty ears, srsly?). And it has taught me to be a LOT less judgmental about others people's kinks.

I have also learned a lot about writing, not just erotics, but writing in general.

It has opened up and expanded many aspects of myself that were already there.
That I'm not as formidable as I thought and can be lured in by sexual predators who are frequented here...
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
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That I'm not as formidable as I thought and can be lured in by sexual predators who are frequented here...


Common sense is your best defense.
I learned to understand more precisely what I like and what turns me on (and what I don't like and what does not turn me on).
I learned that some people really care, and even understand me better than I did.
I learned there is still much to learn. smile
I'm intrigued by trib/scissor
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I learned to understand more precisely what I like and what turns me on (and what I don't like and what does not turn me on).
I learned that some people really care, and even understand me better than I did.
I learned there is still much to learn. smile


What she said.
I feel as though the real me finally surfaced
That people don't always do what you'd expect.
And that spanking is truly cathartic for me.
That there's a Trinket Flesh Light on the market.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Nothing yet that I didn't already know about myself.
That I have a gift for letting out the rope.
That you can fuck here too lol
I think there is a much more international flavour on here compared to the forum which I normally post which is primarily British. Comparing the 2 forums it still shows that us Brits in some cases are still very much reserved when it comes to sex and attitudes to sex.
The amount of procrastinating I do is pretty impressive!
That I'm not discriminatory, I'm just careful.