Older gent here that has had prostate surgery and cannot keep it up, tried Viagra with no results. I try keeping the Mrs. happy by doing oral and she tells me that is all she needs, but I know otherwise. I have suggested that she have another man now and then, but she refuses. I want to see her pleasured with a nice hard cock, so I purchased a strap-on cock about 8". My question is, Would she get as much pleasure out of this as she would if it were a real cock? I am at my wits ends wanting to please her and don't want her to start cheating on me, I would agree to let her have a gentleman screw her on the side now and then, but she dismisses that idea. Thanks for your help.
Some women do enjoy strap-ons. My girlfriend seemed to enjoy it when I used one on her, but I never enjoyed it as much when she reciprocated. I prefer the real thing. You'll just have to try it with her and gauge her responses. Most likely, she refuses other men because she feels this would be a betrayal, even given your consent. As long as you have given your consent, don't think of it as cheating if she did experiment with another man without telling you. She would only be doing it so as not to hurt your feelings. She doesn't want to re-enforce your feelings of inadequacy. Maybe you should just take her word for it that you are satisfying her needs with oral and stop projecting your feelings of inadequacy onto her.
A bit over a year ago I met a couple of whom the husband had a implant in his penis. That worked great for them. If you have not investigated this route perhaps you should. Maybe your insurance will pay for it. Maybe you can afford it out of pocket. But, it is a solution that works for some folks.
