That was an epic thread so glad I read it. Got proper agro at the end. What happens next will there be a reply or has it ended. Can't wait to find out. HAHA
Tho personally as a guy I say go out with your new partner and buy some new toys together. I mean that's half the fun.
Posting children's pics on the forum now Jack? You idiot. Nobody else is allowed to do it and DECENT people don't post pics of kids on adult sites!. Did you just break one of the rules of Lush?
Jack. Knock it off. Let's put this thread back on track, please. it was a legit question and one that deserves a legit answer. thank you.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I will only use toys that either I own or are owned by someone I really trust. Glass and other non-porous toys can be properly cleaned and would be very safe but I would feel weird asking someone to wash it before we use it. So I rather not be in that situation if I can avoid it.
I just wanted to comment on what I read here. Yeah you need to get new toys for new partners. I once had a love doll and decided I wanted another one. The first love doll got so jealous she flew out the front door. I never saw her again.......
I agree that you should replace the dildos/vibrators. etc. Perhaps they can be a parting gift for the ex-girlfriend and help ends things on a positive note.
However, I don't see any reason to get rid of things like handcuffs and paddles - the "accessories", as you referred to them. Personally, that seems a bit extreme to me.
Maybe I am just unusual, but I can't see the harm in wearing handcuffs worn by another person. After all, the police reuse theirs all the time, and they don't even clean them.
While it is true that your cock. fingers and mouth are not replaced, somehow the idea of having a vibrator used by God Only Knows Who inserted into my body, even if it has been sanitized, just seems extremely unpleasant...a definite mood killer. At least in the case of body parts, skin cells constantly slough off and are regenerated. Silicone, however, is forever. There is no regeneration.
OMG seriously? Really if we start dating and you want to move to the "toy stage" let's go buy them together? Geez first of all the shopping will be fun and will get us all hot and bothered and using some other girl's toys is just like way too fucking weird for me?? Anyways I don't know if maybe I'm weird, but it just wouldn't feel right.
I don't think I want my guy to won his own toys. He can buy them for me if he wants. Thats just me.
I agree with the main line of this thread.
New girl - New toys
But... it is different if it is BDSM stuff, ropes, handcuffs and so on. But here I am talking about general stuff, I don't want to use the body harness your ex had, that would be weird.
At the same time it is ok for a guy to have his own toys, and I really mean his own. If you get off having a dildo up your ass during sex that is just great! So if the dildo is yours then that is fantastic.
(Though some girls will be freaked out so be careful)
Interesting read of differing opinions. I don't mind if the male has his own toys and wouldn't have any problems using them on him. I would take issue with items being used on me. Common sense you already know the answer buy new and you won't cause controversy and mistrust. Play safe and have fun
