Quote by justalilfun
I am not defending women, or men either for that matter. I am merely saying that a persons username, their profile description etc, should not leave them open to rude crude and disrespectful opening conversation lines or friend requests.
I am making the point that you should always show a person a level of respect during the first few contacts, and see where the conversation goes.
Not just start with some derogatory gutter comment - who cares how big or small your appendage is?
If you can't put your brain into gear first, it is going to stay in your pants. With the people I have met it would anyway, people seem to forget the biggest sexual organ in the human body is your mind...
Men and women are capable of being both intelligent and also being absurd little grotts. It is just that sometimes intelligence loses and their ugliness comes to the fore.
So with username and profile I used as an example (made up by the way) you think that they want an intelligent conversation? My point is that sometimes you reap what you sow.