i am married, my wife and i live apart.......she has medical issues and has lost all desire for romance and sex.....I masturbate frequently..........am hoping to meet a fwb
I know this is a section for Ask the Gals, but I just wanted to share that since I've been married, I've had more women wanting to get "involved" more than when I was single. Coincidence?
If a man picks me up in a club for a one nighter, I don't ask and don't really care whether he's married or not, but I wouldn't get in to a long term thing with a married man unless they were in an open relationship.
I never want to be "the other woman" - I know irs corny, but true for me. I know a few couples that have broken up because either the man or woman "stepped out" and ghad a fuck buddy on the side, or saw an old flame, or whatever. I'm not married, but I can se in my married friends that they really invest in fidelity and trust. Saying that, though, I also know of cases where an "accident" happened - a one-nite-stand at a party, or on a business trip or with an ex after drinking too much --- sometimes they can be forgiven, but the trust has to be earned back....
I;ve had older guys approach me and flirt with the apparent intention of getting into my pants, younger guys too - while I might flirt back a bit, I go out of my way to see if there's a wife or SO at home -- I know that I've been with at least one married man - and the wife allowed it - encouraged it! (And it has been an interesting friendship with them) .... and I have no doubt that some guy has slipped through my "screen" at some point - I just can't be certain --
But my "policy" is no married men need apply.