Not so much my man (meaning my boyfriend, who defers to me in everything), but other guys I take on as FWB's. I make them shave their cocks before we have sex. If they balk, I ask them how much they really want to have sex with me. None have refused yet, although some have me do it for them, which I don't mind at all.
nothing. i want what he wants. i fucking love the man.
I would never force my guys to perform for me if they didn't want to - as a woman there are times I don't want to so I dont pressure 'them'. Should they desire something of me or my girlfriend there is generally the two of us to provide it if one of us is indisposed.
I would say however there are times I come on a bit stronger than normal and one or the other always see me satisfied.
My men would walk over hot coals for me and I know that, and dont abuse it. Likewise I would generally do anything they ask of me.
There is only mutual respect for everyone of us in the group and all 6 of us enjoy an uninhibited relationship without fear or favor.
When I met my boyfriend I had been a sub and still had a dom or two until we got serious. He was used to pleasing women, when he was younger was taught by older women and he's pretty much a devious sex scientist, but it was uncomfortable and strange for him to be so dominant, though I never asked for it. He kept asking me what I wanted and I didn't know, couldn't say it, was made to not utter a word for so long, he'd never been into any bondage or pain, spanking, etc. and it took us a while to find our way, the balance of power, I guess. But he always gave me one orgasm after the other like he was on a mission to blow my mind!
The ONLY thing he does that I have to beg him for is spanking me when I've been naughty. Only good girls get their bottoms spanked but sometimes if I pout enough I get one lone slap even I've been bad. Apart from that, it's his rules all the time, which is just how I like it.
