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Make Love, or Hard Fuck ?
Active Ink Slinger
My husband does a great job of making love, extracurricular activities are all about the physical fun!!
Rainbow Warrior
Like Lori said. I have two live-in boyfriends with whom I make love (and fuck hard!) and 3 FWBs who are just good hard fucks when I want variety. Every woman should have both!
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by BethanyFrasier
Every woman should have both!
Perfectly worded Bethany!!
Active Ink Slinger
I make love with my husband. Everything else is just about a great hard fuck. Really want to be worn out when done!!
Quote by rrready4u
I make love with my husband. Everything else is just about a great hard fuck. Really want to be worn out when done!!
I totally get what you and the other ladies are saying. And its right that your husband/wife/someone you love is the one you Make Love with, but even with him/her i'm sure there are times when you just want to be "worn out", maybe pleasantly sore too!?.
Active Ink Slinger
I enjoy both - when the time and the place is right for either.
Quote by Metilda
In my view....
Fucking Hard refers to the nature of the sex.
Making Love refers to the emotions.
Slow sex isn't the same as making love.
I enjoy sex without a connection just as much as sex with a connection. Might be odd- but I think even in a marriage there can be emotionless sex.
Spot on!, yes "emotion" is really the key thing here. Or even more importantly the emotion that BOTH share.
I dont thing anything at all odd when you say about emotionless sex in marriage. This of course still happens when ppl simply fall Out of love, but its been a thing throughout history too. How many women have gone into marriage and the Only sexual advise ever given to them has been something like "just put up with it", "it wont last very long",,,,so on.
And worse of all, that sex is ONLY ever for the man's pleasure,, and indeed that its a sin or dirty for a woman to enjoy it.
Thankfully times are changing, and places like Lush are evidence that more and more women are no longer constrained by outdated social double standards.
I totally agree. There can be emotion and connection, either in marriage or relationships, or without it. But the main thing is that sex is something that is pleasure both partners enjoy, and that can be with soft tender kisses or heated hard fucking. Or probably Both.
Rainbow Warrior
There is also such a thing as sexual chemistry, or mad sexual attraction. I've been with guys (and girls) whom I certainly didn't love, but the mutual feeling of connection was overwhelming. It wasn't exactly making love, but making a bond, if that makes sense.
Quote by BethanyFrasier
There is also such a thing as sexual chemistry, or mad sexual attraction. I've been with guys (and girls) whom I certainly didn't love, but the mutual feeling of connection was overwhelming. It wasn't exactly making love, but making a bond, if that makes sense.
Hi Beth. Yes that makes perfect sense, and i suppose at the end of the day, what ever works for "us" makes all the sense we need. Sometimes you want him/her to wine n dine you,,,,other times just rip your panties off, LOL
Active Ink Slinger
I believe there is a time and place for both. Sometimes a person just needs a hard fuck, while others need slow love making
Rookie Scribe
Start off making love
Active Ink Slinger
Former can be followed by later lol
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Active Ink Slinger
Hubbie is great at both. As I shared wife I only make love to Hubbie and Steven the first guy he shared me with over 37 years ago. All the rest are for fucking.
I will admit the orgasms from the fucking are much more intense, longer, with more waves and more squirting. I also must admit that making love produces the best romantic moments and sharing of our true love for each other.
I think if they would legalize couples getting married Hubbie and I would marry Steven and Kim.
Brandie
I will admit the orgasms from the fucking are much more intense, longer, with more waves and more squirting. I also must admit that making love produces the best romantic moments and sharing of our true love for each other.
I think if they would legalize couples getting married Hubbie and I would marry Steven and Kim.
Brandie