You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
If I stick with a boyfriend, it means that I am enjoying sex with him. That being said, I guess a case could always be made for more staying power, maybe faster recovery time. Maybe - doubling or tripling (or even more) the volume of cum could be fun. Most of the guys I have been with all cum with about the same amount, which is fine. There was one guy in college, though - he shot at least 3x the amount of other guys I knew - It was fun - delicious fun.