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looks, body or personality?
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Personality. But the other two definitely matter. They are usually the attractors and then its the personality that keeps me there. But for me to say looks dont matter would be an outright lie!
Alpha Blonde
It's kind of a balance of all three and it also depends on what you're looking for at that stage in the game.
If you're looking for a serious relationship and life partner, personality will carry a much heavier weight of importance.
If it's more of a casual thing, vacation sex or a fun fling, then I think looks/body are going to be the stronger draw.
If you're looking for a serious relationship and life partner, personality will carry a much heavier weight of importance.
If it's more of a casual thing, vacation sex or a fun fling, then I think looks/body are going to be the stronger draw.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
It's kind of a balance of all three and it also depends on what you're looking for at that stage in the game.
If you're looking for a serious relationship and life partner, personality will carry a much heavier weight of importance.
If it's more of a casual thing, vacation sex or a fun fling, then I think looks/body are going to be the stronger draw.
Very True
Alpha Blonde
Quote by willwow96
thanks and i think you 100% right, looks are the thing we see first, but if a guy a guy had great body and personality but not the greatest of looks then what?
Are you taking about the male version of a butterface?
Alpha Blonde
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what do you mean 'butterface'? i mean ok looking but not the guy who gets the girl
Meaning everything is hot "but her face"...
You're saying if the guy has a great body and a great personality, do looks matter... So... to me - looks would be comprised of both the body and the face.
If the guy looks 'ok' and has a winning personality, then he should be able to get the girl a lot of the time. Maybe not every girl. But he shouldn't be completely dateless.
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Meaning everything is hot "but her face"...
You're saying if the guy has a great body and a great personality, do looks matter... So... to me - looks would be comprised of both the body and the face.
If the guy looks 'ok' and has a winning personality, then he should be able to get the girl a lot of the time. Maybe not every girl. But he shouldn't be completely dateless.
your a really huge help, maybe there's look for me after all Active Ink Slinger
Quote by willwow96
thanks and i think you 100% right, looks are the thing we see first, but if a guy a guy had great body and personality but not the greatest of looks then what?
To me looks and body go together, its total appearance
Her Royal Spriteness
sorry, i was going to say something here but i got caught up at staring at Doll and that lollipop... nevermind! *blushes*
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thanks
Matthew...THANKS FOR YOUR MILITARY SERVICE !!
Now, you'll be hard pressed to find any answers any better than what Doll, Nikki, and Sprite have laid out. That comes from someone old enough to be Nikki's father and probably old enough to Doll & Sprite's G.Father. These three ladies have plenty of smart's and you'll do well to listen to what they are saying.
Rick
Personality is definitely the more important of these attributes. But I am a firm believer that your personality reflects upon the other two. and vice versa. If you let yourself go physically, it will effect your whole life, etc. etc. Take care of yourself completely and you will be A-OK
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I agree with many of the posts, depends on what you're looking for - something more serious or just a casual fuck. For me, personality is the clincher. I've been with some great looking men but most of them were as deep as thimble of water and dumb as a stump - that holds my attention for about a nano-second. On the flip-side, I have found myself attracted more often than not to men who normally wouldn't register on my radar as far as their looks but it's their personality and sense of humour that draws me to them like a magnet - those have been some of the best encounters I've had. The holy grail is when you can find that guy that embodies all three [-o<
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Quote by BelleduJour
I agree with many of the posts, depends on what you're looking for - something more serious or just a casual fuck. For me, personality is the clincher. I've been with some great looking men but most of them were as deep as thimble of water and dumb as a stump - that holds my attention for about a nano-second. On the flip-side, I have found myself attracted more often than not to men who normally wouldn't register on my radar as far as their looks but it's their personality and sense of humour that draws me to them like a magnet - those have been some of the best encounters I've had. The holy grail is when you can find that guy that embodies all three [-o<
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Looks and body will get you through the door... but if there is no personality... there is no relationship. However... I've found that personality can make or break looks real fast. A bad personality makes for an ugly person and a great personality enhances looks.
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Personality!
Looks and body are good too. But a persons attitude and personality is what gets me interested
Its a cliche , but the brain is truly the sexiest organ.
Looks and body are good too. But a persons attitude and personality is what gets me interested
Its a cliche , but the brain is truly the sexiest organ.
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Personality first, for sure! I always fall in love from the inside out.
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looks and body tie
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Personally I want it all. But the order would be personality, looks and body
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for me it is ALL personality
i married a very good looking man who turned out to be..well... just looks
after ten years...you want a brain and laughter to sex you up..not a six pack
make me laugh and give me an orgasm..i dont care what you look like
be faithful to me and i am yours...for life...
i married a very good looking man who turned out to be..well... just looks
after ten years...you want a brain and laughter to sex you up..not a six pack
make me laugh and give me an orgasm..i dont care what you look like
be faithful to me and i am yours...for life...
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Well it's rough for a girl to have to compromise but you could always tell them...
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Well it's rough for a girl to have to compromise but you could always tell them...
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No offense or disrespect intended, but the advice or comments given by three women displayed as gorgeous arch typical sex symbols would carry little weight with the ones whom society find horrid. That trio has never been laughed at in public when asking someone out. They havent been dumped fo some thug gangster wannabe. Just my insignificant opinion