Ok, so I'm just lookin for some options here, but what is a good song to give a lap dance to?
There is a lot of erotic songs out there. You just have to look. You can even use normal popular songs. I once went to a strip afternoon at a local bar and one of the dancers danced to Candy Man by Christina Aguleria.
"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."
Simone de Beauvoir
Depends on your taste in music. Rock, rap, dance, alternative? All have good lapdance songs.