just curious as to whether or not being a crossdresser is a deal breaker for dating.
No, I wouldn't. Yes, it's a deal breaker for me.
Well, if said crossdresser was my dress and shoe size, had a killer wardrobe and was willing to share....
Not if he looked sexier than me
For me it depends what we're classing as cross dressing. Some guys just like the occasional feel of looking hot in sexy women's style underwear, I could deal with that (have had a sexual relationship with someone like this)... it's not my ideal, but for the right guy I'd be willing to go ahead with him. Full on cross dressing? Not for me... sorry. Kudos to you all for having the guts to be yourself and enjoy it, but I don't personally find it something I'm attracted to. It would be a deal breaker for me.