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Ladies,do you like a man who cooks for you?

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After a long day do you like coming home to table set and food and wine waiting for you?
Is it something you'd like in a guy.


I have never dated (or married) a man who cooked for me.

That would be a novel concept! If he was a good cook, I'd gladly be the sous-chef.
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I have never dated (or married) a man who cooked for me.

That would be a novel concept! If he was a good cook, I'd gladly be the sous-chef.

Never? That is sad, every guy should be able to rustle up a nice steak and salad at least. My go to menu:
Moules Mariniere
Beef Strogonof with wild rice
Raspberry Pavlova
All made from scratch.
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I have never dated (or married) a man who cooked for me.



Wow. I have never dated a guy that hasn't cooked for me. I thought it was standard fare for guys these days. Maybe I've just been lucky? Even the jerks and d-bags have cooked for me. lol Although with your culinary skills, no wonder they are wanting you to take the lead every time! smile

Actually I find most guys suggest the 'come to my place and I'll cook dinner for you' on the third date - basically to seal the sex deal. It doesn't always work but I've had some fantastic meals. Guys that can cook and put on a nice dinner are definitely a good thing.

I'm happy to reciprocate with putting together fancy/romantic dinners (although I will admit up front that I'm not the most domestic kind of girl in the kitchen), but in every case the guy has always cooked for me before I cook for him. I've never really thought about it before and it's not a rule, just seems to be how it's worked out.
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Please, please have a chat to my wife. I cook every night and I am a reasonably good cook. I am still awaiting my first blowjob from her and we have been married 30 yrs - sigh.i6VneaEVxQdXQbkb
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Hubby is the cook in the family, which is fine with me. I chose automotive shop over cooking class in high school.
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I love cooking, it is a big hobby for me so I generally am the one who does the cooking. I have dated a few guys that cook though but it isn't necessary. I don't rate skills in the kitchen as something major since I love to do it.
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Absolutely! A man who's good with ingredients in the kitchen is generally useful in other areas, too smile
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Cooking and baking is one of my favorite hobbies as well as my profession, so I generally do most of the cooking, but even so I enjoy having a man cook for me. Even beyond whatever culinary skills he possesses, the caring and consideration, especially after a hard day is what is really appreciated. And if he is also a great cook, so much the better.
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i have a lot of men friends who r gay ... for some reason gay guys make great cooks.. and throw great dinner parties... so yes .. i do biggrin
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I love when Master cooks for us
and he cooks well!!!!
doing my best to be good..
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Im a cook by trade. Love creating and cooking from scratch. Just the other day I was on a date with a lady who didn't know how to cook so we went and got some groceries and made dinner together.
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I love it. Hubby has been the cook in this relationship since before we were married. I took boys shop classes in high school instead of girls classes like cooking and home eco. So hubby does the cooking and I do the metal welding.
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My spouse only does the cooking in the summer. He is a fantastic cook on his grill. I absolutely love the food he makes.

But aside from regular cooking, I prefer to do it. He just doesn't have the time to prepare a fancy meal.

LOL.....
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I'd love a man to cook for me....huge turn on;)
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It's the #1 reason I married my husband. Okay, maybe not the #1 reason, but I do brag about his amazing skills in the kitchen. He is 10 times the cook I am.
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I've never dated a guy who cooked for me! Hubby can boil water. Does that count?
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Since I don't like to cook, I tend to bake, it is nice that my husband is a budding chef. He loves to cook and someday he will have his restaurant.
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I learned how to cook as an early adult, my friend calls me a young Gordon Ramsey. Before then, I never knew how much women liked a guy who can cook. Kinda glad I decided to pursue culinary arts as a major.
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I like anyone that cooks for me. If they do the washing up as well...WHOOPEE.
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I think it is a good thing to say or offer. It can be sexy.
I have been in a long term relationship with a man who could cook well and now I find that it does not really matter. It is nice if they can, and are good at it. We took turns. (As well, whoever cooked-the other one cleaned). I am a pretty darn good cook myself. I know what compliments, how to prepare, and my herbs. I do not have to measure. What I like to cook, I cook well. I do not want to compete or offend so I think cooking together is now a really fun option when it is that sexual kind of relationship.
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I absolutely love it when a man will cook a meal for me.
I love cooking, baking, and grilling, and have been doing it since I was five years old.
It's wonderful when a man can cook me a meal, from scratch, without opening a prepackaged box or buying anything takeout.
If you don't know how to cook then you should learn to make a few simple but good dishes that can impress the ladies.
There's nothing sexier than a man that knows his way around a kitchen and can clean up afterward.
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Yes. I also think it is very romantic for both of us to work together to prepare a meal. Taste testing off of each others fingers, rubbing against each other to get utensils.
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I haven't had a man cook for me for a long time..but it is very nice..

( my last relationship was 13 years and he did not cook....kinda in more ways than one..)










I had the same lover for six of those years. And some random ones.
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Yes, definitely. heart
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I love nothing more than to be poured a nice glass of wine and to sit and watch a man move around a kitchen a prepare a wonderful meal. Very very sexy.

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For sure!
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Sometimes my wife and I cook the meal together, sometimes she does it, but I actually cook more than she does. She seems to like it. I don't mind setting up the table, romantic with candlelight and a single rose. But not all the time. That would wear it out. Plus handling the expensive china and crystal makes me nervous, it feels so fragile.
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I love to cook and bake so I don't really mind either way.