Ladies of lush please help...
What's a bigger turn on. When a man cooks a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers or a night out at a fancy restaurant being waited on hand and foot???
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I'm not really into fancy restaurants. I'm a simple person, in many ways!
In the past when I've been at work and he's had the day off, he's had dinner waiting for me when I've walked in the door. That was always a nice surprise.
I much prefer casual over being waited on. The idea of someone standing beside our table playing the violin while we dine would make me want to use my fork for things other than eating.
In the past when I've been at work and he's had the day off, he's had dinner waiting for me when I've walked in the door. That was always a nice surprise.
I much prefer casual over being waited on. The idea of someone standing beside our table playing the violin while we dine would make me want to use my fork for things other than eating.
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I prefer having a nice cooked meal at home, flowers and candles are optional. I can still dress up or down and feel more comfortable.
The effort and attention to detail that my guy has gone to and created in a meal is way sexy and trumps going out to a fancy restaurant.
I like being taken out to dinner but I prefer places that are cozy, warm, inviting, intimate and the vibe is laid back.
The effort and attention to detail that my guy has gone to and created in a meal is way sexy and trumps going out to a fancy restaurant.
I like being taken out to dinner but I prefer places that are cozy, warm, inviting, intimate and the vibe is laid back.
I just love a fancy restaurant with great food and wine, with elegance and service.
But nothing equals a man that cooks for you.
Even if it is not perfect, but the effort shows there is an interest in you other than what is between your legs.
Movies and Television always shows a man cooking for his lady preparing Pasta. Not always true, my man could cook at a level near that of a celebrity chef and there are many other men out there with equal skills
But nothing equals a man that cooks for you.
Even if it is not perfect, but the effort shows there is an interest in you other than what is between your legs.
Movies and Television always shows a man cooking for his lady preparing Pasta. Not always true, my man could cook at a level near that of a celebrity chef and there are many other men out there with equal skills
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Home cooked meal!
While I like fancy restaurants, I sometimes feel a bit out of place! And how lovely is it for someone to go to the effort to cook for you!
While I like fancy restaurants, I sometimes feel a bit out of place! And how lovely is it for someone to go to the effort to cook for you!
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There is nothing like the personal touch. Much prefer when someone takes the time to do something nice for me!! So home cooked meal for sure. And it will pretty much guarantee that I will supply the dessert!!!
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my man knows how to cook one dish (taco dip) : ) it is a treat for sure and i second that i'll take care of the desert no problem : )
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Definitely a nice dinner at home. I can dress however I want or not at all.
I couldn't have said it better myself Molly xxxxx
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Ladies of lush please help...
What's a bigger turn on. When a man cooks a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers or a night out at a fancy restaurant being waited on hand and foot???
Its the thought that my partner puts forward that is a turn on. Life tends to fluctuate and so does my needs and desires. A lover that can bend, move and adapt with me is the biggest turn on.
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It shows so much more love and care if he puts out the effort himself, whereas it's just signing a credit card slip otherwise. He cooks for me now and again, and even if it's not the best cooking, the love he puts into it is the best sauce in the world! I think he's actually wanting to learn more stuff in the kitchen so he can make our little one grilled cheeses, mac and cheese and other kid favorites!
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Wow, am I the lone dissenter? The only woman who would rather dress up, have a nice drink at the bar while we wait for the table- so long as he can order for me of course, then enjoy great service and food for the next hour or two? If he picks a decent restaurant, then good service and at least decent food is predictable, as opposed to his cooking, which will probably suck, then I'll have to pretend to like it until I can either wash it down with whatever wine he's got on hand or sneak away to mix in some mouth wash.
"Sir? Madam? Your table is ready."
Sweet, sweet music.
"Sir? Madam? Your table is ready."
Sweet, sweet music.
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One over the other?? I'd have to go for a nice meal in the comfort of our own home. My man is a great cook and he wooed me with that part of himself when we first met. Was so sexy and sweet, in my opinion 
. We both share the duty though, as far as that goes these days, being that we both work.
However, an occasional night out, just us, at a table for two in a nice restaurant is a great escape from the norm. We do this about once a month or so.
. We both share the duty though, as far as that goes these days, being that we both work. However, an occasional night out, just us, at a table for two in a nice restaurant is a great escape from the norm. We do this about once a month or so.
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I must admit I am pleasantly surprised! I would never have predicted the Home-Coocked outcome in this day and age of conveniance and a world awash in cheap money. Is it just that I misjudge human kind, or have we writers ( and appreciaters of writers) just the same values?
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I fell in love with my bf over food and we love to cook....at home can be really sexy and fun. BUT, I love to try new food and new places, I really think it depends on the occasion.
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Wow, am I the lone dissenter? The only woman who would rather dress up, have a nice drink at the bar while we wait for the table- so long as he can order for me of course, then enjoy great service and food for the next hour or two? If he picks a decent restaurant, then good service and at least decent food is predictable, as opposed to his cooking, which will probably suck, then I'll have to pretend to like it until I can either wash it down with whatever wine he's got on hand or sneak away to mix in some mouth wash.
"Sir? Madam? Your table is ready."
Sweet, sweet music.
umm no you're not. Ruth's Chris here we come...and ill take the 21 year old scotch too...mmm thank you ;)
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Live to eat damn it, don't eat to live. Well, at least once in a while. Linen table cloth, martini straight up, conversations buzzing around, hors d'oeuvres served while choosing a nice bottle for the meal. The only thing better, I guess, would be good home grilled BBQ during a great party.
Live to eat damn it, don't eat to live. Well, at least once in a while. Linen table cloth, martini straight up, conversations buzzing around, hors d'oeuvres served while choosing a nice bottle for the meal. The only thing better, I guess, would be good home grilled BBQ during a great party.
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There is nothing like the personal touch. Much prefer when someone takes the time to do something nice for me!! So home cooked meal for sure. And it will pretty much guarantee that I will supply the dessert!!!
Oh Nikki you will always be the dessert even at a Broadway Hot Dog Stand!!!
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Ladies of lush please help...
What's a bigger turn on. When a man cooks a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers or a night out at a fancy restaurant being waited on hand and foot???
When a man cooks me a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers (and lube and dildos)... yeah, far preferable to fancy dining. Besides, who says I can't be waited on hand and foot at home?
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If a man were to cook the dinner ... that's a turn in of itself. When the candles, flowers and wine are added ... it's an extra bonus.
When dessert is done with imagination or passionately .. or wild and sloppy ... THAT'S the LOTTERY baby ♥
When dessert is done with imagination or passionately .. or wild and sloppy ... THAT'S the LOTTERY baby ♥
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TBH my vote is on something more active like dancing but dont waste all the energy save it for home ;) LOL