Just a side note here to, overmykneenow and JohnC. This thread was posted in "Ask The Gals" Get it? Ask The "GALS" Gals means women or ladies. Do you two squat to pee and wear a skirt? Hmmm........
Thank You to all the serious replies to this post!
It all depends on how well the other person is with their words. i enjoy cybering very much but sometimes i feel like im talking to an 18 year old boy who's about to get his dick wet for the first time.
while i find cyber sex to be arousing its no substitute for the real thing
Interesting Topic....Trinket......I know this was for ladies to comments but could not help. Cybers well you have the 5 minute wonders which some ladies like and a lot of guys I guess and you have the 2 hour delight but with both you do have to have a connection. I won't say where I stand, other than I hate quickies.
From my experience some woman are racehorses who just want to get to the finish live and others relax and enjoy the ride.
The males responding here seem to be a little over sensitive. Low testosterone maybe?
Not in the least!!!!!!!!!
For me it is about the depth of the conversation turning sexual and continiung that way through hours of talk. The ends results are always much more satifying abiet fulfillng. No on 5 min chats for me
Sometimes.. There's some people that just ask for sex right away, so it's not that arousing. But if a guy was my friend already, and didn't constantly ask for it, possibly yes.
You know, if you message me, you can see what an interesting person I can be.
Just saying.
personally, no im not a cyberer as such, but i like to listen to what the other person is doing, if that makes sense? i think this is because im no good at it so i like to take a step back, i find my lack of concentration doesn't help, and i get side tracked quite easily. but i do agree with the comments it depends on the person your talking to and the mood i am in.
No, I don't find cyber sex to be very arousing. Or even really arousing. Not in the sense of randomers on lush, anyway.
I do enjoy exchanging dirty texts with my boyfriend (past ones and present). Sometimes this is purely because it's hot....but mostly it's kind of an extension of foreplay. Texting him whilst he's at work that I'm at home waiting for him etc etc. Means he arrives all hot and bothered.
'Phone sex' is hot though. I wouldn't 'do it' with a random, but phone sex is epic with the right person.