Im confused: If you can just keep having orgasms how do you ever reach the point where your satisfied?
Ill try to explain what I mean: lets imagine for a minute that sex is like eating and the urge to have sex/be sexually satisfied is your hunger. Having an orgasm is supposed to fulfil that hunger and make you feel full. Now imagine your hunger resets after each orgasm doesnt that mean you will always feel hungry for more and never reach that point where you feel full and satisfied?
Lets look at the same example with a car: Say that sex is like the gas tank, being sexually satisfied is when the needle is on full, now lets say orgasms are you trying to fill the tank up, now imagine you try to fill the tank multiple times but the tank just resets its self to empty because theres a giant hole in it, wouldnt that mean the needle can never reach full?
Do women have a point where they are fully satisfied and how do you get out of the multiple orgasms loop to get to the part where your done?
Sorry if Im over complicating things but I would like to understand things better and would really appreciate if you could help and explain things as detailed as possible. Thanks
When my husband and I sleep together, his general rule of thumb is that he likes me to have three orgasms before he even penetrates me. Sometimes that's enough. Sometimes I have another while we are fucking. And sometimes I'll have another five or more.
When I masturbate one can satisfy me. On other occasions I've been known to reach around 17.
It's more like when you're hungry and you have a normal meal. Sometimes that is enough to sate you. Other times you have dessert too. Occasionally you have a three course meal. And then other times you have a three course meal, followed by cheese and biscuits, an after dinner coffee and a few chocolates.
As for filling a car, it's like when the pump clicks to tell you the tank is full. Sometimes you leave it at that. But sometimes it's like £48.13 so you fill it up to £49. Then you think 'fuck it's and make it a round £50 by squeezing that little bit more in. And if you overshoot and make it £50.06 you keep going until you hit £51.
Different days, needs, feelings, scenarios, time between orgasms.... It all makes a huge difference between whether one or twenty cums will satisfy me. Your body knows when you're done.
Sometimes you just get too tired to have more..lol
" I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"
Woody Allen
there's no specific point. often i've had enough but my husband can give me more. i guess it's just when you tell him that enough is fucking enough.
Just because we can keep going, doesn't mean we aren't satisfied...it's just means, well we can keep going so why not. Sometimes my last one may not be as strong as my 1st but it still feels good and if we are still fooling around, why not keep going. Sometimes they stay so strong all the way till the last one and I am exhausted and just can't keep going. I have not found a limit to mine, I keep trying though ?
Your gas tank analogy is a bit strange, but I can be satisfied with one huge orgasm, or several smaller ones, but still be able to enjoy more until either my clit gets overly sensitized or my pussy muscles get sore from spasming too much.
In general, women have far more sexual stamina than men. Also, foreplay is usually more important for women than for most men. Men who have the patience and empathy to become experts in various foreplay techniques have a chance to become better lovers. Few will ever be able to experience more than two or three orgasms.
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