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My husband wants to try swinging...I'm nervous
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Know any wives that got pregnant trying swinging once?
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We are swingers and safe sex is generally practised. Make sure you always use a condom and you should be on the pill or another kind of contraception yourself. I have not heard of it happening but my friends and I are in an older age bracket where pregnancy isn't an issue.
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Woody Allen
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We are swingers and safe sex is generally practised. Make sure you always use a condom and you should be on the pill or another kind of contraception yourself. I have not heard of it happening but my friends and I are in an older age bracket where pregnancy isn't an issue.
" I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"
Woody Allen
Woody Allen
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When David and I were swinging, all the girls were on bc, so I never heard of anything like that happening, but we were only swinging for two and a half years. I've had a couple of scares with FWBs, but nothing more than late periods.
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No, just use normal birth control and a rubber to be doubly sure.
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The swingers group I used for a while insisted on all guys using condoms - this made it far more pleasurable for the guys who followed. I certainly didn't mind and I always permitted the last one of the night - usually the guy I enjoyed most - to finish me off bareback.
Any girl who uses swingers and is not on BC is playing with fire.
Any girl who uses swingers and is not on BC is playing with fire.
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Even once?
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Marx Sister
Just use adequate birth control, and you should most likely be fine. I use numerous types of birth control with all of my partners. That said, if you are uncomfortable with the notion, you should think a little harder about why that is, and if you are really excited about this idea.
I have been poly for some time - which, yes, is very different from swinging - and I have come to the conclusion that statistically speaking, as long as you're careful, there is very little risk of pregnancy. STI transmission is much more likely, though still very rare if you're using barrier protection (correctly). As for your interest in sex outside your marriage, that's a key component to everybody's enjoyment. I hope this helps some.
I have been poly for some time - which, yes, is very different from swinging - and I have come to the conclusion that statistically speaking, as long as you're careful, there is very little risk of pregnancy. STI transmission is much more likely, though still very rare if you're using barrier protection (correctly). As for your interest in sex outside your marriage, that's a key component to everybody's enjoyment. I hope this helps some.
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What are you doing about birth control now Lisa? There are quite a number of solutions to this issue. I know I first suggested condoms, but that certainly isn't your only option. For example there are plenty of guys who are vasectomy safe... There's the morning after pill...
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You should try it, It's only kinky the first time. If you find the right guy or couple it can be a lot of fun as long as it's just sex.
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As long as you use a condom it should be fine.
As a matter of fact, unless you have written evidence that they are clean (you can get these from a doctor) always use a fucking condom when swinging.
As a matter of fact, unless you have written evidence that they are clean (you can get these from a doctor) always use a fucking condom when swinging.