Keep it in or pull it out?

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If we've reached that level of intimacy, absolutely. It's not required all the time, but it is nice every once in a while. Have I woken up horny with a guy still inside me? Yes. But I've also woken up horny with a guy not inside me. And honestly, unless it's at the very least semi-hard, then a guy's dick doesn't do much while it's inside you. Meaning not much happens as far as feeling it goes. As I said, it's more of an intimacy thing than a 'horny' thing. That's really as close as two people can get.

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Wait... you both are saying that you literally sleep all night with the penis in the vagina? I could hardly imagine that for myself, it must be awkward just from the start, trying to fall asleep over your partner. Then you move during the night and don't really feel anything while you're asleep, I can hardly see the point.

But if some people enjoy it, I really can't say anything bad about it. I'm learning everyday here on Lush...

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For me, its more of an imagination thing And I imagine keeping it in while I am cuddling into her sideways, NOT when I am over her :) Also, I don't imagine going to sleep straightaway, there is a lot of pillow talk that could happen and quite a bit of body movement to go with it :) Slipperywhenwet is right though - its more of an intimacy thing rather than a horny thing.

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Wait... you both are saying that you literally sleep all night with the penis in the vagina? I could hardly imagine that for myself, it must be awkward just from the start, trying to fall asleep over your partner. Then you move during the night and don't really feel anything while you're asleep, I can hardly see the point.

But if some people enjoy it, I really can't say anything bad about it. I'm learning everyday here on Lush...

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"Okay stand up buddy, I gotta go wash my teeth. Follow me close! Keep it in, keep it in!"

Seriously, I can cuddle for a few minutes after cumming while keeping it in, but the whole night?

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Tell me something, can you simply cuddle the whole night (no restrictions on keeping it in or out?) If yes, then your dick has to be somewhere right? It might as well be in her special place. Could you try to bring it out into words what exactly you find problematic about it?

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Well, the fact that whenever I have to move (and therefore my penis does too) my partner has to "follow" accordingly. I can change positions like 5 times just before I actually fall asleep, I won't ask my partner to change her position with me everytime...

Plus after a few minutes after orgasm, your penis slowly loses its erection, and actually staying inside her vagina is a bit more complicated. The least you would move, it will instantly slip out.

And yes my dick has to be somewhere, but after a great sex session, the excitement is over and as long as it's attached to my body, I don't really care where it is.

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I imagine it to be really intimate to keep it in. (...)

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Just "getting it in" is sufficiently intimate for me. And "pounding it in" too...

Seriously though, and I really mean no offense as you seem like a young guy that's willing to learn (I admire that), but don't burn steps. I'm sure once you actually "get it in" you'll be plenty satisfied and I won't really feel the need to keep it in her vagina all night long. Just my thoughts.

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That's the beauty of sex and intimacy. Everyone knows/does what works for them and avoids what doesn't.

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After the guy cums in your pussy, do you mind if he keeps it in? Would you like to go to sleep with his cock still in? Have you actually done it? If yes, what does it feel like from your point of view? Do you wake up really horny if you do this? What I find erotic about keeping it in is that every little movement is making sex happen. All those slight twists and turns of the body would cause it to fuck you which is such a horny thing!! Thoughts?

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This can work in the spooning position (I really can't imagine any other position that would be comfortable) and only if you're both dead tired and just pass out right after sex or doze for a bit and then kind of wake up and feeling it get hard again so you can move on to round two. I've had this happen on occasion but it's always been more of a natural and organic thing - not something you're trying to really maintain on purpose - and only for shorter bursts of time (like a doze or nap).

To be honest - I don't like excessive cuddling that goes on all night. I really do like my own space for actual sleeping and chances are high that after sex, I'm probably going to get up to go to the bathroom or get a glass of water or something before settling in for the night anyway. Unless as I said before - I'm dead tired or kind of drunk. I like the concept and am definitely in favour of leaving it in until it gets soft or you're done with the cuddling session but not all night - it's kind of constricting.

Guys that have done the all-night cuddling thing with me have been a turn off - mainly because I can't get a proper night's sleep and I'm the type that doesn't need nonstop touching to feel connected or a sense of intimacy.

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I enjoy a cock staying in me after he has cum in me. It feels weird when his cock goes soft in my pussy and soft it usually slides out. Unless the guy is long really long. Which I have had and he left his soft cock in me as I worked my pussy muscles around it milking it and what a feeling it is to have the cock grow hard in my pussy. OH W-O-W and he was fully in me when his long cock hardened up in my pussy. It felt like it was going to come out of the top of my stomach.
I have well we both fell asleep with his hard cock in me. It was so Wonderful. I woke up on my back with him fucking me in the morning. I squealed out orgasming. He had to be out of me in the night cause we were on our sides when we fell asleep. BUT I LOVED IT. I wake up horny a few times a week.
Me and the guys have also fallen asleep with a cock in my pussy and a cock in my mouth. W-O-W !!! What an experience them times are.

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I understand but just wanted to add an alternative perspective. Imagine lying face to face, nose pressed against nose, him inhaling your hot breath and you his, lips pressed lightly into each other, you are both under the blankets on a COLD night, the freezing air making the warmth of your lover so deliciously comforting, you feel like you are in your own little world especially because there is a soft pillow pressing down on your heads, away from the cold, you feel sooooooo safe in each other's arms and you just drift off into a blissful sleep... with his manhood still inside you along with his cum...

I understand it might not be for you, but just wanted to show you an alternative.

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After the guy cums in your pussy, do you mind if he keeps it in? I don't mind, I like it

Would you like to go to sleep with his cock still in? I have before

Have you actually done it? Yes
If yes, what does it feel like from your point of view? It feels like a cock inside my pussy :)

Do you wake up really horny if you do this? Yes, wouldn't you? :)

What I find erotic about keeping it in is that every little movement is making sex happen. All those slight twists and turns of the body would cause it to fuck you which is such a horny thing!! Thoughts?

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Nope. Still uncomfortable.

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Hmmm would you like to elaborate what exactly you find uncomfortable about it?

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lying face to face, nose pressed against nose, him inhaling your hot breath and you his, lips pressed lightly into each other.
There is a pillow pressing down on your heads.

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This. Noses pressing, inhaling each other's breath, with a pillow pressed down over your heads? All night? Seriously - who sleeps like that??

I would also suggest that unless he's hung like an anaconda, a soft dick will not stay in while in this position all night long and it's logistically uncomfortable. Plus I can't sleep all mashed up in someone's face like that. Sex is good. Cuddling is good. But when I sleep, I like some space.